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I realize that I love my cat.

But I want another one for her.

Should I go for it?

I feel like it will help be a new beginning for me.

I just feel bad about something and guilt eats me up right now. I, well, caused a problem for my own Mom and have hurt our relationship. And I realize that now. We've talked about it some. We're fine, right now, but I... feel the guilt, dammit.

Regardless, I want to at least help my current cat by giving her a new companion.

Ugh, I feel silly saying it.

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[–] Catfish@lemmygrad.ml 7 points 4 months ago (3 children)

I think you should, cats love company. But you should have a backup plan for if they don't get along.

[–] Makan@lemmygrad.ml 2 points 4 months ago (2 children)

How would you go about a backup plan? I'll look this up more...

[–] Catfish@lemmygrad.ml 2 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) (1 children)

There's a couple ways of going about it, if you're adopting from a person they're usually emotionally invested in giving their old friend a good home so if you were like "Hey I'm interested in this cat! I'd like to make sure they get along with my cat at home, if they don't can I return them to you?" They might be okay with that arrangement.

[–] Makan@lemmygrad.ml 2 points 4 months ago

That's a... good idea.

Yes, there is someone that wants to give away their cat.