lazyneet

Depression gang here. I'm in therapy. Does it help? I don't know, but I'm also a full-time student, which at least distracts. I'm dating a guy who has my level of depression but lacks my sex drive and middle-class background, and I've had meaningful long-distance relationships as well, so I understand what you're experiencing. The trouble is that depression has many causes, and if it's chronic then you can get triggered by something and your whole day is ruined at the very least, and sometimes these spells last for months. There is no easy cure, but if he'll listen you can give him basic advice on finding help.

I had a strong feeling of being bisexual in high school. Was totally open about it but nobody listened because I was a virgin.

Texture good taste bad.

Yesterday my on-and-off partner got mad at me for eating oatmeal because he didn't like the sound of the spoon in the bowl. I think he was deflecting from other issues. In the morning he acted like everything's fine and he even gave me a quickie before we left. Now I can't call him to tell him what's up on my end because he forgot his phone was on silent FOR A WEEK NOW. I pity people who need weed to calm down because it can really fuck with your personality imho.

100% agree with the text, but it should be full points

I'm disappointed that there isn't more information provided on what he looked like after 10 years. I imagine partially decomposed and not preserved since he was on the outside of the fridge. People would have smelled something for a while and probably dismissed it as food waste.

Honestly I have trouble getting my two partners to like each other, or even tolerate me for more than a day at a time. If I "allowed" someone to have a 3-way I'd "allow" them to finish wherever and however they want.

Grindr is full of kinky people. It's also full of ad spam and bots. Scruff is a little more dignified but it's mainly for bears, and the more attractive of them sometimes put things like "no fem" on their profiles. The only one I wouldn't recommend is Recon, which is kink-focused, and only because I've never even come close to getting a date through that, though I am in the US.

Apps I haven't tried: I hear Barq is good for furries. Feeld is a kink-focused app but I think it's mostly straight people.

I would. I don't even have a picture of my partner. You've got to keep rolling the dice until you're with someone who's down.

I'm not quite aromantic but I'm pretty much the same with kink. Do I trust someone enough to do this or that to me? Then you may as well do all of it. I can't get pregnant anyways.

I'm not a top and I'm very upfront about safe sex. I don't know why someone would feel unsafe with me but frankly it offends me every time. I'm just describing one side of an interaction, and it's possible that I haven't properly communicated here how those interactions go down.

I've gotten a lot of "talk to you tomorrow" then the next day the convo doesn't exist. I'm guessing it's either bots or humans with unreal short attention spans. The Grindr Turing test requires a face pic in the profile and evidence of a personality.