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submitted 4 months ago by FearsomeJoeandmac@hexbear.net to c/chat@hexbear.net

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They're basically full incels who claim women are shallow and hate men below 6 foot....

and dudes 'dick sizing' posting selfies of their faces to each other "no I'm more handsome than you" pure incel weirdo shit

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[–] Tankiedesantski@hexbear.net 12 points 4 months ago (2 children)

As a fellow Asian who's tried dating in the West, I definitely agree that the Asian incel movement is a terrible response to the gendered racism which pervades many Westoid societies. Working on yourself and making meaningful changes is always the better option though I feel like this is the dating equivalent of a racist job market where an Asian person has to be twice as good as a mid white guy just to be considered on the same level.

Maybe it's a lot different now than when I was last "on the market" many years ago.

[–] FearsomeJoeandmac@hexbear.net 11 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago)

I'll be honest. The dating market in western countries looks super hard if you're Asian or Indian.

I've had some white women tell me the only time they've been attracted to "said ethnic group" is when the guy was "mixed with white"

I think our dating market is super euro centric unfortunately.

Doesn't man asian/Indian dudes can't find love. We've all seen it happen. It definitely looks harder for you guys though, at least initially

[–] TemutheeChallahmet@hexbear.net 8 points 4 months ago (1 children)

I think it is a lot different now with K Pop, and Asian guys who have neck tattoos prying open the possiblity of Asian guys being dating material.

[–] PM_ME_YOUR_FOUCAULTS@hexbear.net 7 points 4 months ago

There are so many teenaged girls watching K-Dramas and thirsting over Korean guys these days