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Well, I should note that the situation for myself is that my mom's first language is American English, and her second language is Norwegian, and my dad was the reverse, however both he and my mom mainly spoke English to me growing up. So I ended up growing up with both English and Norwegian, but because of the language dynamics in my family and in Norway in general, and because I was comparatively socially isolated for a long time, and because of various feedback loops, my Norwegian skills ended up basically "lagging behind" my English skills. This means that my idiolect in Norwegian has a number of prominent proscribed or eccentric features. So that's something to keep in mind for when I put my Norwegian through this Swedish "filter" — that the Norwegian being filtered is itself already "Americanized" for lack of a better term.
Russian and Japanese are two languages that I have self-studied for a number of years. Neither of them are really up to the level I'd like, but I can still take pride in the effort I've put in and how far I've gotten, because even if my progress is slow compared to some learners, most hobbyist learners burn out and quit way sooner, right? Esperanto was one language that I tried to learn but quickly gave up on, but I've recently restarted learning that, and I hope and frankly expect that this time around I'll make it to a much higher level, and it'll become the fifth language I'll say I can speak. And there are other languages still that I'd like to try my hands at eventually, and I've also been conlanging as a hobby for about a decade already, and languages are fuzzy things anyways, so just like anyone else I can sometimes understand individual words or sentences in languages I've never studied.
ooohhh. my dad’s first language is spanish, second language portuguese, then english :)
my mom’s first is english, then polish
also, that makes complete sense, i’ve been told i speak portuguese better than english/spanish.
Det virker som du har en veldig interessant bakgrunn, kan du fortelle mer om språkene du kan, hvordan du vokste opp, hva forholdet ditt er til disse forskjellige språkene? Jeg er også nysgjerrig om språkdynamikken der du bor, mtp portugisisk og spansk og engelsk osv, og forholdene mellom disse.
oh sure! i’ll say this part in english for everyone who wants to read.
my dad is from peru but of cuban descent (peruvian from dad, cuban-peruvian from his mom). naturally, both his parents spoke spanish and lived in a spanish-speaking country, so dad grew up speaking spanish.
however, he lived near the peru-brazil border, where he learned portuguese from portuguese speakers he saw. (my dad’s family mostly only speaks spanish though or spanish and english)
at around ten i think, he came to the us and started to learn english.
my mom is an american of polish descent, polish is her second language when her family started teaching it to her as a young girl. (but her dad either knows spanish and didn’t teach her or doesn’t know it as a latino.)
i use spanish mainly at home, with paternal family, and with my spanish-speaking friends. english with most people because it’s a widely spoken language online and in the us, and portuguese with my dad and brazilian online people.