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As the title says, I wanna get bottom surgery, but the thing is, I live in a country which has little rights to death penalty for lgbt folks, and I live in a restrictive family that are bigoted and filed with hate. Every time when I get hyped about bottom surgery, I remember I live with worst family in a worst country

And that makes me feel down bad, I just get sad every time when I think about it.

And I was wondering what will be my friends (Online and irl) and my family reaction like if I ever said I wanna get bottom surgery? This scenario makes me heated up and afraid if I ever said it to them I’m now just sitting in my room, so pissed off I live in this country

I wanna get at least help or advice regarding my situation

Thanks to anyone who replied to this post

Bye comrades <3

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[–] darkcalling@lemmygrad.ml 7 points 1 week ago* (last edited 6 days ago) (2 children)

Second cross-posting this on hexbear, particularly https://hexbear.net/c/traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns. They have a MUCH larger and more active trans community there and I'm sure they'd be able to offer you advice.

I think right now federation may still be down? Not sure but it's worth a try. :(

Try this link and see if you can cross-post or interact via it maybe: !traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns@hexbear.net (Oof, looks like it's not working, only old cached content :( )

[–] ComradPhelixby777@lemmygrad.ml 3 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago)

Thank u for letting me realize the existing of this community!

Also dang no federation ):

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