A. still "here" and active
B. here but given up due to lack of momentum, interest
C. abandoned platform completely
D. just waiting for the 1 year mark and praying new users and posters will continue to come
E. other? (like only relying at alternative matrix chat)

I'll be happy to see more than 10 responses from this dead community 😉

[Update 11/18]: glad to see comments, feedback, much more than I expected. Also see the modlog for actions taken. Just wanted to point out a couple of threads:

https://lemmynsfw.com/post/2601241, by @OptimusPrime@lemmynsfw.com
https://lemmynsfw.com/post/418317 - this topic has been hashed over and over, and I'm not about to let this thread/community get derailed.

[Update Nov 20] : WRT downvoting - see https://lemmynsfw.com/post/4581685

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[–] WooBoy@lemmynsfw.com 12 points 10 months ago (5 children)

Not a mod, but a new user from Reddit. I'm the husband of an MF bbw couple. We've enjoyed posting ourselves on reddit over the years.

I was happy to see there was an NSFW Lemmy instance. I'm also happy to see that it's well moderated.

There doesn't yet seem to be a critical mass of people here. We're not conventionally attractive people, but on reddit there were numerous places we could feel welcomed and hot.

That's not the case here.

There's a bbw community here I've started posting in. I tried a few other places, but ended up getting more downvotes than upvotes. That doesn't feel good when we're just here to show off.

I'm planning on sticking around for a while, hopefully some more plus-size lovers come around here soon 😘

[–] b9999998@lemmynsfw.com 4 points 10 months ago (1 children)

This thread touches on the topic of voting: https://lemmynsfw.com/post/2601241, by @OptimusPrime@lemmynsfw.com

Unfortunately, gender, body and kink shaming remains very prevalent...

[–] WooBoy@lemmynsfw.com 4 points 10 months ago

Thanks for the link to the thread, I added my opinion.

Unfortunately, gender, body and kink shaming remains very prevalent…

I can see that. It seems like getting rid of downvotes would be worth trying to help combat this.

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