Me too, lemmy and kbin is what I‘m using and both are nice.
The community here is so small that I’ve been pushing myself to comment more than I ever have on Reddit. There I only commented when I had something I felt important to add, here I‘m just writing whatever comes to mind. I hope that could help it grow in a way.
It‘s also been fun exploring more of the fediverse, I found this website for that: fediverse.party and the party is BIG!