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hi, i understand that people will say this isnt a good idea but my parents are forcing me and it's out of my hands so please help me if u can. i go to safety driving school and have finished all my classes my test is coming up and my parents want me to pay duit kopi. who do i contact for this? what do i say? please help if u can. thanks.

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[–] dukeGR4@monyet.cc 3 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

who do i contact for this? what do i say? please help if u can. thanks.

Overlooking the fact all of these can be answered by Google very easily - look, the fact that you're going to other instances and asking similar question, and when people ask where abouts is it and you say : "sAfeTy DriVing SchOoL", i don't think you should be worried about duit kopi. You have bigger things to worry about ie. (i) your personal family drama, (ii) your driving competency.

Don't think anyone here is suited to assist you in these matters.

Your parents wanting you to bribe, and the "safety driving school" actually being bribed or is open to be bribed is also very different..

[–] ds12@beehaw.org 3 points 1 year ago

Duit kopi untuk siapa? Tentulah kamu! Just pocket it for yourself and grab a drink somewhere later on.

[–] Annoyed_Crabby@monyet.cc 1 points 1 year ago

Who pay the fee? If you're the one paying for it then you have all the say, don't let them "force" you to do something you don't like while you have all the power in your hand.

If they're paying and they still let you do the dirty work, then they also dunno how it supposed to work. Just pretend you couldn't find a way for it and do the test legitimately.