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and if you atheist/switched faiths, why did you do it and what faith did you choose?

im in a curious mood today :>

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[–] protist@mander.xyz 37 points 1 week ago

Atheist. Religion is an explanation of the world that's made the fuck up. I think people make shit up to explain reality because accepting uncertainty is difficult, but that doesn't make it ok. The world around you exists, just like it is. There is no special place you get to go if you follow the right set of rules .

[–] queermunist@lemmy.ml 31 points 1 week ago (19 children)

Antitheist.

If there is some kind of almighty God that created and rules everything then it must be the most evil being to ever exist and we must destroy it. It created evil, it created suffering, it created loss, it created death, and for what? Fun?

[–] TacoButtPlug@sh.itjust.works 9 points 1 week ago

This is also me. If there's an afterlife, I'm spending it beating "god's" ass.

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[–] morgunkorn@discuss.tchncs.de 19 points 1 week ago

Baptized catholic by my parents, did all the ritual things all my youth until i was 16. Then i was old enough to try to understand it, got exposed to other schools of thought, and it all collapsed like a house of cards.

I am now fully atheist, and I find religion ridiculous, like fairy tales for adults, based on nothing. Organized religions are also usually structures of power for men. This can all go.

My spirituality would be:

We are made of star-stuff. Temporary piles of molecules which work together and stop after a while, to recombine into something new. I don't need to be remembered, I don't need to leave my mark. Just try to do no harm, any maybe help others along the way, while on this ball of rock and water, tumbling into the immensely empty void.

[–] zenforyen@feddit.org 14 points 1 week ago

My true faith is: don't be an asshole and be a decent, rational and empathetic human being.

Everything else I may or may not believe does not matter, it's decoration.

[–] 0x01@lemmy.ml 14 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Nihilist, insofar that even if there is a god (about as likely as me actually being a secret agent for moon people) why would it matter? While nihilism is not a religious belief I think it fits the prompt.

I made a poop the other day, I'm its creator, I don't care about it, I don't control its destiny beyond the flush.

I'm an optimistic nihilist, nothing matters and that's kinda neato. Existence happens, how fascinating is that? It's absolutely meaningless just like everything in the universe, but that doesn't mean we can't enjoy the ride.

[–] libra00@lemmy.world 4 points 1 week ago

Diving into nihilism and existentialism was really an eye-opener for me. It kind of made me stop hating myself and other people and even stop being an atheist. If nothing means anything I get to decide what matters, I get to create my own meaning. So I did.

[–] Dr_Box@lemmy.world 12 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

I'm an atheist. I grew up super religious and had a falling out with my church due to their "if someone believes different than our denomination they are going to hell" mindset. After that I found out that most other denominations are like that except for mormons but they are worse in other ways. Then I did more and more research that sort of caused what belief I had left to fall apart and now its kind of like Santa Claus, once you figure out its your parents putting presents under the tree theres no believing in Santa anymore

[–] otacon239@lemmy.world 12 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

Taoism is a practice that doesn’t rely on or reject a higher power. It gives meaning to day to day life and the writers I’ve read who practice it have a very practical view on the world.

As for religion, I fall into agnosticism. I certainly don’t have any hard evidence that there is a higher power, but at the same time, with how insanely complex, terrifying, beautiful, loving, and hurtful the world can feel, I can’t help but feel that there’s something beyond what’s in front of us at play. It may not be a theist’s idea of God, but something else entirely.

[–] aras@lemm.ee 11 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

No evidence for God, that’s why I’m an atheist.

[–] wuphysics87@lemmy.ml 11 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Agnostic atheist. Agnostic from the standpoint that the the existence of god is no more knowable than the number of angels who can sit on the tip of a needle. Atheist from the standpoint that theism ain't it

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[–] rabber@lemmy.ca 10 points 1 week ago

Pantheist. Mother nature itself is the God

[–] tengkuizdihar@programming.dev 9 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (2 children)
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[–] DaedalousIlios@pawb.social 7 points 1 week ago

Zen Buddhist. I grew up Christian, realized I was believing out of obligation rather than genuine conviction, but also I'm pan and Christians have made it very clear that's not okay with them.

I was areligious for awhile. Which I use because I am still an atheist; I don't see much evidence for gods, but that isn't important to Buddhism.

I appreciate the Buddha's teachings and find them incredibly helpful. I'm calmer, more focused, and over all, happier for my practice. It gives me a spiritual outlet that doesn't make me feel "dirty" the way Christianity did.

There are aspects to Buddhism that I have to take on faith even though I am otherwise a skeptical individual. But ultimately, those things don't change how I would have had to live my life. And I believe that a true practitioner needs a balance of logic anf faith: too much logic, and you kill your faith. Too much faith and you wind up in a cult. You need enough logic to stay grounded, and enough faith to believe. But you have to acknowledge that you can rarely prove the things you take on faith and because of that, there will always be non-belivers, and that has to be okay.

[–] BorgDrone@lemmy.one 7 points 1 week ago (1 children)
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Grew up atheist, went through a semi serious pagan phase, got certified as a shaman, went back to atheism. Will still throw in the odd ritual, but more with the expectation that it will affect the way I think about a problem rather than the ritual doing anything on its own.

So like if you have a job interview you can either raw dog it and show your lack of confidence or.preform a ritual and gain some confidence which will count in your favour during the interview.h

Is the ritual doing any direct alterations? No, but it's still useful.

[–] markovs_gun@lemmy.world 7 points 1 week ago (1 children)

It's complicated but I used to be essentially atheist but now believe that there is something one might as well call "God" after studying philosophy. Essentially everything has a cause and something must be at the end of that chain, and we might as well call that "God." I also practice Christianity because I feel that it is good to have the community and structure that a religion can provide but I don't think that "God" necessarily exists in the way Christianity typically presents it.

[–] Dr_Box@lemmy.world 4 points 1 week ago (4 children)

Upvoting you because as an atheist I think its stupid that others are downvoting just because someone says they lean towards christianity

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[–] mortemtyrannis@lemmy.ml 7 points 1 week ago

Agnostic atheist.

[–] Olhonestjim@lemmy.world 7 points 1 week ago

Atheist. I was raised in various flavors of southern, whites protestant churches. Mostly the so-called charismatic, non-denominational, types, but also mainstream Southern Baptists, Presbyterians, etc, but not excluding some of the weirder cultish strains.

I left because I began to realize just how fucked in the head they raised me. I couldn't relate to regular people very well at all, and couldn't trust the judgement of religious people at any level. I got out and got the help I needed. I only wish I had done it sooner.

[–] CrowyTech@feddit.uk 6 points 1 week ago (1 children)
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[–] HelixDab2@lemm.ee 6 points 1 week ago

Satanist.

Raised Mormon, was a Mormon missionary. Had a nervous breakdown, and religious leaders said that I must be sinning, and needed to pray more, read my scriptures more, and repent. But... What sin? And how was I supposed to pray/study more when I had already dedicated two years of my life to preaching? E.g., there's 24 hours in the day, and I'm already spending multiple hours doing that stuff, so where am I supposed to fit that in?

That was the first crack in the foundation. Took a while, but once you realize that religious leaders are just men (and yes, it's always men in the Mormon church), and that despite their claims they don't have any prophetic powers, then you start questioning a lit of things, like how you can even know truth. (Spoiler: you can't know truth without some kind of objective evidence, and all religions' truth claims are based on subjective evidence and "see?, it says so, right here in my book!")

Atheist is a label that says what you don't believe. Satanist is a label that says what I do believe. So I eventually settled on Satanist.

[–] ocean@lemmy.selfhostcat.com 6 points 1 week ago (11 children)

Buddhist, I was more Christian. Growing up in a fundamentalist church and becoming more intellectual drove me to ask big question that Christianity didn’t answer for me. Causes and conditions allowed me to encounter Buddhism when I was living in Japan and it’s grown in me ever since. I really liked how Zen meditation made me feel. Very different from being told to pray but there was nothing and also no unstructured. Buddhism has clear practices and results. I know it has “supernatural” elements but it’s all mostly logical to me and I like that

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[–] disguy_ovahea@lemmy.world 6 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Spinoza’s god fascinates me enough to be agnostic rather than an atheist with conviction.

[–] ocean@lemmy.selfhostcat.com 4 points 1 week ago (2 children)
[–] libra00@lemmy.world 8 points 1 week ago

Pantheism basically. The universe literally is god.

[–] disguy_ovahea@lemmy.world 5 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

It’s more of a philosophical god than a being with consciousness. He said that god is “the sum of the natural and physical laws of the universe and certainly not an individual entity or creator.” Simplified, everything in existence is god, but individual things are not god on their own. That point is an important distinction between Spinoza’s god and animism.

Perceiving god as more of the framework of existence itself is a very compelling way for me to appreciate the connection of all things, without accepting a bearded man in the sky or encroaching on my scientific understanding.

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[–] Elaine@lemm.ee 6 points 1 week ago
[–] Fungah@lemmy.world 5 points 1 week ago

My religion is "keep your religion dar the fuck away from me".

I believe in freedom from religion even more strongly than of religion

[–] VagueAnodyneComments@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 1 week ago (1 children)

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endless defiance, i didn't know i could be free until i heard the archenemy singing to me

[–] libra00@lemmy.world 10 points 1 week ago

48 SATANs and not one hidden SANTA - I'm impressed, and a little disappointed.

[–] ultranaut@lemmy.world 5 points 1 week ago

Raised "Christian" in the evangelical/born again/southern baptist milieu. Strip mall churches and unaccredited schools with unqualified teachers and Bob Jones text books. Became atheist as soon as I was able to think rationally. The thing that did it for me was the hypocrisy, which became too obvious to ignore.

[–] neidu3@sh.itjust.works 5 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

I am an atheist and ordained dudeist priest. Because it aligns with my values.

[–] palarith@aussie.zone 5 points 1 week ago

Apathetic since forever.

[–] davidgro@lemmy.world 5 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Grew up in a Christian household, but grew out of that kind of superstition around high school or a bit younger. My parents never did, so that and politics caused a bit of tension, but never enough to keep us from talking to each other, visiting, etc.

[–] CozyLorraine@lemmy.world 4 points 1 week ago (3 children)

Really happy for ya, parents usually don't take these things so well, mine would probably disown me if I ever came out about having different beliefs

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[–] DozensOfDonner@mander.xyz 4 points 1 week ago

What do you mean "if you are an atheist, why did you do it"? I just want raised with a religion.

[–] Thrawne@lemmy.world 4 points 1 week ago

Atheist, but i find the myth of Lucifer interesting. A being who had feelings of becoming more than what he was. Then confronting his creator to declare he is more, and will not yield.

[–] WhatSay@slrpnk.net 4 points 1 week ago

I wasn't really raised with religion, but most of my family is Christian. I considered myself atheist as a young adult. But after many spiritual experiences, I believe in the unexplainable, but I'm not a fan of organized religion or cults.

[–] BmeBenji@lemm.ee 4 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

I was raised protestant Christian.

I would say what I believe now is heavily influenced by that, but also heavily influenced by how clearly the focus that evangelical Christians put on the idea “God needs to be feared more than They need to be followed” has fucked up so much of the world. Fearing someone at the cost of spreading their message is nonsensical, idiotic, hypocritical, and toxic to human society.

According to the Bible, Jesus Christ rarely answered direct questions with direct answers; most of the time his answers came in the form of a story or a parable explaining one possible answer to the question given one possible context, implying that humans are encouraged to use their judgment to figure out how best to approach a situation. Imagine that. An all-powerful creator who granted intelligence like Their own to Their creation and actually wanting that intelligence to be exercised.

One of the most notable instances where Jesus answered a direct question with a direct answer is Mark 12:28-31:

“Of all the commandments, which is the most important?”

“The most important one,” answered Jesus, “is this: ‘Hear, O Israel: The Lord our God, the Lord is one. Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind and with all your strength.’ The second is this: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’ There is no commandment greater than these.”

In no uncertain terms, love is the most important commandment. Furthermore, Jesus equates loving your neighbor to loving God in Matthew chapter 25. It’s not evangelism, it’s not religious authoritarianism. It’s not indoctrination. It’s love.

I believe this world was created by an omniscient Creator who wanted humanity to use the intelligence granted to us to freely develop a society centered around love.

[–] Ilixtze@lemm.ee 4 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

From very young age i never felt i needed to believe in anything, spirituality felt like a part i was missing. my parents took me to church but i never liked the god depicted there and i found the crucified man figurine scary. When they told me that god loves me and that if i didn't love him back i would go to hell it all soured for me. That portrayal of love didn't make sense in my mind.

I don't feel atheist either, religion feels very political to me, and atheism seems more apolitical than an active oposition. Where i live catholicism has a lot of power and it's tentacles wrap around government agencies and institutions. There are weird cults close to where i live that are offshoots of catholicism ; These cults have international power and they have deep histories of corruption and abuse. I feel something has to be done about this but where i live there is very little oposition or regulation for religious institutions.

[–] iAmTheTot@sh.itjust.works 4 points 1 week ago (4 children)

I was raised Christian, went to church every Sunday and believed as a kid. Then I stopped believing in all my imaginary friends. Being slightly cheeky, but also I genuinely just grew out of it as I learned more about... Everything, really.

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