this post was submitted on 10 Jun 2023
508 points (98.1% liked)

Asklemmy

43950 readers
672 users here now

A loosely moderated place to ask open-ended questions

Search asklemmy πŸ”

If your post meets the following criteria, it's welcome here!

  1. Open-ended question
  2. Not offensive: at this point, we do not have the bandwidth to moderate overtly political discussions. Assume best intent and be excellent to each other.
  3. Not regarding using or support for Lemmy: context, see the list of support communities and tools for finding communities below
  4. Not ad nauseam inducing: please make sure it is a question that would be new to most members
  5. An actual topic of discussion

Looking for support?

Looking for a community?

~Icon~ ~by~ ~@Double_A@discuss.tchncs.de~

founded 5 years ago
MODERATORS
 

For me it feels like breaking up with someone after many years. At the same time, I feel a bit dirty mentioning the name in the post title.

(page 8) 50 comments
sorted by: hot top controversial new old
[–] Seigest@lemmy.ca 1 points 1 year ago

I feel that. Reddit's bit of an addiction for me. I don't use other social media so it became my one stop shop for news, inspiration, and to connect with all the little niche intrest.

Oddly, I was frequently just doom scrolling r/all to see what was going on the the world. And when I ran out of revent stuff if just sort by new. Super unhealthy behavior.

Hopfully this transition will help me slow down a bit and get back to reality.

[–] tookmyname@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Ya. But I’m kind of relieved. Place has been pretty toxic and the content has been getting more and more lame. I’m excited to be somewhere new and start fresh. Maybe reverse some of the bad habits that are contagious with how I engage too.

[–] shizuka@kbin.social 1 points 1 year ago

Yeah Reddit has a lot of really valuable communities that are not ruined imo. For some of those niche communities the other option for discourse/information is Tiktok which I don't like because the discourse is super fragmented and hard to follow.

[–] MinkLitly@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 year ago

I'm sad for the hidden gems of smaller communities that I loved but couldn't move to lemmy/didn't know about lemmy or generally rely on mass platforms to get the action going being so small. I hope one day they migrate.

[–] Batbro@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

I'm excited, I've been fediverse curious for a while. This gives the power back to the people

Kind of - I'd just hung around because they hadn't given me a single, strong reason to leave. 3rd party apps getting crushed was the kick up the ass I needed

[–] Amiral_Poitou@beehaw.org 1 points 1 year ago

I go by the thought that the Reddit I cared about died a few years ago. I was a very vocal/active membre of the french community, but once it reached its critical mass, it all went downhill. The recent efforts to hire powermods to create more content has been the last nail in the coffin.

[–] theDuesentrieb@feddit.de 1 points 1 year ago

It is just sad to see another good thing, build up collectivly by people in their spare time comes down due to cooperate greed.

I will use reddit as long as the subs I'm mainly engaging in haven't migrated and as long as there is a secure & a/tracking free way of accessing Reddit, even if it is desktop only

Bit then again I'm happy that truly free and non commercial alternatives get the attention they deserve

[–] RandomVanGloboii@feddit.it 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Reddit has made me discover many things in 5 years of using it, and I would have never become a Linux user without it. Nevertheless, platform come and go, and it's time to move, as usually happens once in a while. It's not wise to get affectionate to websites

load more comments (1 replies)
[–] Protegee9850@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Yeah. Here’s hoping this is just the beginning of something better

load more comments (1 replies)
[–] relaxdontdoit@masto.ai 1 points 1 year ago

@Acetamide This has been coming for a long time, I'm glad the community is being a chance to move on to spaces which aren't just trying to suck blood.

[–] ARNiM@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

A bit heartbroken, but I always wanted decentralized forum like the old days. Having it federated makes it better and I hope Lemmy can succeed as an alternative. Using something that is too centralized make it hard if something like this happens.

Though I hope I can still search for x topic + lemmy (instead of x topic + reddit) for when I want to find some opinions on x topic.

[–] bquintb@midwest.social 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Of course, change is hard. But I'm excited to scope out and learn new technology like Lemmy. Decentralization is the future, and it's pretty exciting.

[–] jerkface@lemmy.ca 1 points 1 year ago

Reddit peaked like eight or ten years ago. I am so ready for this. I have been doing everything in my power (completely ineffectively) to get the people and communities I care about to bridge to a libre network.

[–] imaqtpie@sh.itjust.works 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I loved reddit for a few years at the beginning, but after that I became disillusioned and found myself waiting for a better alternative to come around for a long ass time. I even made an account on voat and the users were just terrible people.

But yeah, I spent a fuckton of time on reddit and I'm hoping to do the same on lemmy, with the difference being that I hope that lemmy will enrich my life and give me the opportunity to enrich the lives of others, whereas reddit was often a toxic cesspool that made us angry and miserable.

[–] Acetamide@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

Oh wow I forgot about boat. Glad I learnt of some better alternative!

load more comments
view more: β€Ή prev next β€Ί