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I'm really worried about the state of the US despite being a white male who was I'll coast right through it. I'll also accept "I don't" and "very poorly" as answers

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[โ€“] CanadaPlus@futurology.today 1 points 11 months ago

It is, though. The US isn't the only place, nor is the Middle East. "African farmer can send kids to high school for first time" isn't a splashy headline but it happens a lot.

[โ€“] shinigamiookamiryuu@lemm.ee 1 points 11 months ago

That's the neat part, I don't!

[โ€“] June@lemm.ee 1 points 11 months ago

I got a vasectomy as a way of dealing with it.

[โ€“] Covoid@lemm.ee 1 points 11 months ago

Nihilism. Nothing matters therefore I am free to do anything. If I choose to make a positive impact in my tiny part of the world, no matter how small it is a net positive compared to if I decide to do nothing. I tried apathy for a while and it served no-one, not even me.

If the best you can do is vote against fascism then that is OK. If the best you can do is show up to local town/village meetings and have your voice be heard that is OK. If the best you can do is vague-post online about the state of America, that's OK.

The only bad thing you can do is be silent. As long as you are willing to speak up about the issues that are important to you and the problems you see that need fixing, you are doing more than 90% of this country.

Live your life according to your values, and on those be uncompromising. Vote your conscience, and hold your elected officials to a higher standard. Realize that change comes slowly, and some things are simply out of your control.

You are not responsible for the things outside your power. You are not to blame for the failings of your nation. Have the greatest effect where you can and learn to recognize where you can't.

We're all in this together, and we're all pulling for ya.

by remembering that Esau is the end of the world

[โ€“] JeSuisUnHombre@lemm.ee 1 points 11 months ago

The weather lately has been depressing and angering. I keep trying to get people around angry about it too, but just like everyone else it's hard to feel like it's possible to get anything done. That's why we need to band together

[โ€“] Rivalarrival 1 points 11 months ago

My primary coping mechanism is woodworking. I'm getting pretty good at building guillotines.

[โ€“] Hades182@lemmy.world 1 points 11 months ago
[โ€“] patomaloqueiro@lemmy.ml 1 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago) (4 children)

From my point of view, the world is neither getting worse nor better, the world has always been the way it is, and it doesn't seem like it's going to change. It's just my opinion.

Edit: In fact, what is getting worse is our economic system, but that is nothing new.

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[โ€“] LastYearsPumpkin@feddit.ch 1 points 11 months ago

Doomerism is very in right now, but lots of things are getting better. It's hard to see through all the social media, but if you curate your feeds to things like science and educational information, you can see all the wonderful things people are learning and making.

Sure, there are a lot of selfish, shitty people out there making a lot of noise, but in the background, there's the same great people just chugging along making things better.

Just chug along with them and vote for the people that align with your values, and do the best you can.

Like Mr. Rogers used to say, when you see bad things happen, just look for the helpers. The first thing that always happens after a tragedy, is people line up to help. It's our natural instinct.

[โ€“] IHadTwoCows@lemm.ee 1 points 11 months ago

If you are not prepared to arm up and defend yourselves it will never get any better, and calling everyone who tells you that "gun nuts" and "ammosexuals" is not gonna inspire anyone to defend you. Begging is not going to work; violence is the only reasonable response.

[โ€“] Konraddo@lemmy.world 1 points 11 months ago (1 children)

This may sound pessimistic, but try to compare yourself with people who live worse than you.

[โ€“] Elric@lemmy.world 1 points 11 months ago

Pretty low bar dude

[โ€“] meep_launcher@lemm.ee 1 points 11 months ago

I think what has helped me is watching John Green/ Hank Green's YouTube channels. The fact is bad news happens fast, but good news happens slow.

A maternity ward was built in Sierra Leone thanks to the coordinated effort of thousands of people across the world. Patents for Tuberculosis tests and treatments have been released in the countries that need it the most. This is a disease that takes millions of lives every year, not because we don't have the technology, but because people don't have access to the treatments. Of course this was something that should have been taken care of decades ago, but the fact we can pressure pharmaceutical companies to release their patents for the good of humanity must mean something.

Despair is seductive, it asks nothing but to feel sad, and you can always find reasons to despair. But the correct answer to consciousness is hope.

I work in Chicago with non profits that are dedicated to building safe communities, to saving local and global ecosystems, to public health access, to helping house the homeless.

I fully believe that there isn't anything wrong with the world that can't be solved with what is right with the world. And when I feel despair, which I am oft to do, I look at my friends, my community, those that roll up their sleeves, shake hands, and do what they can with what they have.

[โ€“] 420blazeit69@hexbear.net 1 points 11 months ago

A mix of:

  1. We can't really know how things will play out, so I'm going to at least try to nudge things in a better direction. If that helps create a better world, good, if it does nothing, at least I can die in the water wars knowing I tried.
  2. But things are very likely fucked, so I'm going to enjoy what I can in life while I can.
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