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Sorry for the potentially controversial question: is it normal for less attractive people to settle down with partners they don't find physically attractive? (sh.itjust.works)

submitted 3 months ago by RebiJes@sh.itjust.works to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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[–] fine_sandy_bottom@discuss.tchncs.de 4 points 3 months ago (1 children)

This.

In this thread everyone is going to be single from 40 onwards apparently.

[–] CanadaPlus@lemmy.sdf.org 2 points 3 months ago (1 children)

I've heard some people develop a taste for older-looking people as they age.

[–] fine_sandy_bottom@discuss.tchncs.de 1 points 3 months ago (1 children)

Sure "some", but not many.

For most people I think that other attributes become more desirable than physical beauty. The biological imperative to reproduce with the most physically attractive person you can find diminishes significantly.

[–] RBWells@lemmy.world 1 points 3 months ago

I'm older and would argue most people's taste ages up with them. Like to make a current example the Turkish shooter looks attractive to me, the Pommel horse guy looks attractive to my daughter.

Not sure how long that lasts, may be reaching the outer bound, but no way do the younger guys look attractive to me, and hell yes good looking guys my age do look good to me.