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I think honor is living by the rules one sets upon themselves and others. Especially when shit gets hard. It's easy to say "I help people" but it's a lot harder to push a car to the shoulder in the rain because somebody has a flat on a highway. It's also easy to say people should let you in line because you have two items but do you do that when you have a full cart but really want to get home soon? I try to teach my kids "if you can help, you have to help". When they do that, they bring honor to themselves and the family.
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