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I'm starting to reconnect with some of my old friends from high school but they have a 5-year-old now and I want to make a good impression but I don't really know how to interact with children. Do I just like ask them what their favorite Disney movie is or something?

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[–] Truffle@lemmy.ml 9 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (7 children)

Aways come down to their height level when you talk to them so you can show them and read their facial non verbal language, you want to be on their same eye level but not on their face. Don't stare or make too intense eye contact.

Pick a topic and see how much enthusiasm the kid shows, that can be a useful clue to see if you re going the right way with your interaction. Take into account that some kids (and some adults too!) don't like interacting at all and that is also fine.

Some popular ones are: Dinosaurs, pets, tv shows/videogames, favorite color, favorite ice cream flavor, favorite song, favorite book.

Hope this helps.

[–] idiomaddict@lemmy.world 6 points 2 months ago (6 children)

I hated it when adults would crouch to talk to me, but I don’t know how common that is.

[–] turnipjs@lemmy.ml 7 points 2 months ago (1 children)
[–] idiomaddict@lemmy.world 2 points 2 months ago

Yeah, I try to get on their level without crouching.

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