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[–] CynAq@kbin.social 5 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I agree with you.

I think if an attraction leads to the objectification of your “type”, it’s problematic regardless of what that type is. If you just have a preference and you handle your interactions with people with the necessary respect everyone deserves, I can’t see a problem with it.

[–] wesker@lemmy.sdf.org 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

This makes sense to me. It's okay for superficial features to be an initial factor of attraction, but as soon as it becomes the focal driving force despite the finer qualities of the individual, it's problematic. Well, unless the person of focus is okay with and into that dynamic, I suppose.

Regardless, it makes sense to me.