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[โ€“] JusticeForPorygon@lemmy.world 65 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (10 children)

My favorite part about when this gets posted is that there is always someone trying to justify not putting the shopping cart back.

Edit: didn't even have to scroll half a screen length lmao.

[โ€“] pemptago@lemmy.ml 8 points 1 week ago (7 children)

Okay, at the risk of down votes, I'll take the bait.

My first job was more than 3 years of collecting carts. In that time it's easy to see patterns like where carts often end up. Some are left out in the open, near a slope where the slightest breeze will animate it. Others pushed up on the sidewalk to the side of the store where there's not much traffic and they just pile up. And others still will be left along a common walking path, not blocking the path, secure but not stuck.

Those last ones often take care of themselves because so many people walk along that path, it's trivial to grab it on your way in, and it's faster than pulling a cart backwards out of the entryway where they're stored.

Years later, I'm picking up something for my nephew's birthday party. I park the car. There's a cart in the position mentioned above: on my way, not blocking anyone, secure but easy to grab. So I grab it, walk inside, do my shopping, come out, unload it. Nearest return is back inside the store, or I can put it back where I found it securely, along the way, but out of the way. I choose the latter. Before I even get in my car someone has grabbed the cart on their way in.

I fail to see the problem. However, the person who grabbed the cart was talking loudly to her grandchild so I could hear, "his legs must be broken since he can't put the cart back" ๐Ÿ˜ค

TL;DR In a post about returning your carts, a job which I had for over 3 years, the most obnoxious person I encountered was not someone who put their cart in the wrong place, but a passive-aggressive, self-righteous, loudmouth who was so narrow minded they couldn't see there are spots carts can be left that save both parties time and create no additional work, even as she benefitted.

[โ€“] hswolf@lemmy.world 7 points 1 week ago (1 children)

While the moment mentioned doesn't present any immediate problems, it opens up the "well since he put the cart wherever he wanted I can do the same" mindset, we humans learn by example, not all people will stop and acknowledge where and why they are leaving the cart there, they will just do by convenience, we are built this way.

Putting the cart in the correct place is a social agreement, that forgo the convenience of a few to give it to the most.

Imagime if literally all carts were everywhere on the parking lot (an extreme), it would be utter chaos and make massive inconveniences (like people having to remove it from a parking spot to park their car).

The silver lining is, not all conveniences work in all scales.

[โ€“] pemptago@lemmy.ml 3 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

First of all, thank you for replying. There's probably many on the subject who would down vote a counter point without even reading, let alone replying.

it opens up the "well since he put the cart wherever he wanted I can do the same" mindset

This seems to make multiple incorrect assumptions:

  1. there's not already multiple carts that could inspire that mindset. There's usually many out of place for much longer. This cart was literally there for less than 15 seconds.
  2. people are biased towards replicating negative behavior. As I said, I grabbed the cart on my way in, but that won't inspiring order the way leaving it inspires chaos?
  3. most people are unable to differentiate between where a cart is easy to grab and where it's just going to linger or get in the way. I know I'm not the only one grabbing carts on my way in. It doesn't take years of cart collecting to notice.

I feel depressed when I see assumptions that seem to view people as really dumb and requiring hard-line, no-exceptions rules. It gets uncomfortably close to an authoritarian worldview. I wrote my previous reply because, while I believe people should put their carts back, and model that behavior myself, I also believe things are rarely black and white and it's valuable to interrogate when that might be.

Edit: add opening thanks

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