Kind of falls under the 'Too Afraid to Ask' category, I guess, but I've been curious about this for a while. Did something actually happen at some point, or was this just a procedural thing that wasn't ever followed up on?
It's mildly annoying given how large they are.
Edit: It's possible that this isn't a federation problem at all (as discussion is bringing to light) but something else entirely. Regardless, though, something is going on.
It's also possible that the site I link below is out of date, so maybe don't take that as gospel. I bookmarked it a year ago and just hit it up to check on this a few minutes before posting, so I haven't been keeping up with it.
Doing a little more digging in light of the above, it's possible this is related to this issue, and there's just an extremely long delay before we get content from lemmy.world. Weirdly, though, it doesn't seem to be the case with other instances - maybe because of their size? Either way, looking at the same posts on our instance and 3 or 4 others, we seem to be the only ones not getting the replies. So something's fucked, maybe.
If you're on lemmy.world and happen to see this, drop a reply in here, maybe - I'd be curious to see how long it takes for us to see it (or if we can at all).
For the sake of discussion, it seems that it does, but with a huge delay we don't see from other instances. This reply just became visible to us within the last 15 minutes.
I typically browse New, so if this is typical, that explains things - I don't usually read posts more than 2-3 hours after they get posted unless I'm following it for replies specifically. I've been noticing that I'll see a post with, say, 10 replies, but if I go look at the same post on another instance, it'll have 30-40+, with most of the disparity being from lemmy.world, so I (incorrectly) assumed it was a federation issue, when it seems it's not. Sure would be nice to figure this out, though.