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Visiting the US soon - do I really have to tip? (feddit.de)

submitted 1 year ago by kilgore@feddit.de to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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Hey Folks!

I've been living abroad for over half my life in a country where tipping is not the norm. At most you would round up. 19€ bill? Here's a 20, keep this change.

Going to the US soon to visit family and the whole idea of tipping makes me nervous. It seems there's a lot of discussion about getting rid of tipping, but I don't know how much has changed in this regard.

The system seems ridiculously unfair, and that extra expense in a country where everything is already so expensive really makes a difference.

So will AITA if I don't tip? Is it really my personal responsibility to make sure my server is paid enough?

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[–] SapphicFemme@lib.lgbt 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Nobody should be put through that. Employers should pay you and everyone a living wage. Work should, seriously not be needed for survival in my eyes, but something that is done, purely for passion or fun. Our society should set goals to push to eliminate capitalism as long term goal and in shorter term work to end systemic issues such as what you described how you were treated badly, how other workers are treated badly, how peoples lives are ruined when they lose their jobs. I'm on your side on improving this.

[–] NathanUp@lemmy.ml 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

That's great! I assume, then, that this means you wouldn't deny a service worker needed resources because you thought they were a little grumpy?

[–] SapphicFemme@lib.lgbt 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Again i am talking to improve systemic issues

[–] NathanUp@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Ah. So to be clear, you would deny someone needed resources because of their attitude?

[–] teawrecks@sopuli.xyz 1 points 1 year ago

This isn't the fight you're looking for 👋