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[โ€“] arcrust@lemmy.ml 9 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Because I was married to someone else. She was also married.

This.

I am married for longer than a decade, yet my instincts still develop a crush on random good looking women. I don't tell anyone because I will feel ashamed by moral standards. I also won't make a move on any one and painfully waiting for the feeling to wear off or the person to move away.