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[–] Risk@feddit.uk 8 points 1 year ago (7 children)

Wondering if this is an unpopular opinion: if you don't like the unwashed smell of your partner then that's your body telling you you're not a good biological match.

[–] regul@lemm.ee 33 points 1 year ago (1 children)

that sounds like weird evopsych bullshit

[–] Risk@feddit.uk 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)
[–] regul@lemm.ee 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I don't think smell is even in the top 50 reasons that people end up with their partners, consciously or subconsciously.

If anyone's done a test of whether long-term partners generally adhere to those pheromone rules I'd consider that interesting, but initial attraction, scent-based or otherwise, isn't what determines long-term compatibility with a person.

[–] Risk@feddit.uk 1 points 1 year ago

Sure. That doesn't mean smell isn't telling us something though.

[–] NightAuthor@beehaw.org 15 points 1 year ago (1 children)

There’s a difference between a natural musk and just straight up dirty though.

That being said, you’re unlikely to be considerably dirty after 2 days of chillin inside.

[–] Risk@feddit.uk 1 points 1 year ago
[–] Swiggles@lemmy.blahaj.zone 12 points 1 year ago

I like the smell of my partner in the morning, but not after a hot sunny day. I think there are different levels of unwashed to consider.

[–] GrimSheeper@lemmy.world 10 points 1 year ago

Sounds like a musk fetish to me. No shame ofc. Get that stink

[–] dylanTheDeveloper@lemmy.world 7 points 1 year ago (1 children)
[–] Risk@feddit.uk 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

You realise this idea exists independently of decent hygiene, right?

[–] dylanTheDeveloper@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

No I don't smelly boi (it's a joke don't be mad)

Seriously though natural BO? No way it smells bad because bacteria eat your oils and poop it out onto your skin.

some people just have a smell that nobody would like so Imma judge that take complete horseshit

[–] Nerorero@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 1 year ago

Guess I am no match with anime fans and gamers