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What is something you wish you knew when you were younger? (lemmy.world)

submitted 1 year ago by GingeyBook@lemmy.world to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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[–] Seigest@lemmy.ca 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I considered a simular answer, but realized I was given that same advice so often when I needed to hear it. I still ignored it.

Much to our detriment. The "heart"often circumvents all logic and reason. Especially to our younger selves.

Best we can do is try to instill a enough self worth that we become a little more stable. At least in my case I'd have been less willing to change who I am if I actually knew who I was.