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What's the worst present you've ever received? (lemmy.ml)

submitted 20 hours ago by Merlu@lemmy.ml to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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[–] phoneymouse@lemmy.world 39 points 19 hours ago* (last edited 18 hours ago) (1 children)

God parents are supposed to care for the children, if the parents die. I think you shouldn’t overthink it. If you’re willing to fill that role, then raise the kids however you think is best. Accept the role gracefully as it is an honor and your sister is showing she loves and trusts you. Leave it at that.

As atheists, we have to acknowledge that most of the world isn’t yet on our level of thinking, but also that we don’t really have similar “concepts” for religious traditions that serve certain societal needs. God parents do serve a societal function. As an atheist, I can acknowledge that, accept that role, and play the part for those I love.

[–] tallricefarmer@sopuli.xyz 17 points 18 hours ago (1 children)

Yeah my siblings and friends also know i am an atheist, but that hasn't stopped us from naming each other godparents. It is just a promise to look after the child if something happens to the parents. I also try to make some monetary investment for the children

[–] FellowEnt@sh.itjust.works 15 points 18 hours ago (2 children)

We solved this by having oddparents instead of godparents.

[–] bobs_monkey@lemm.ee 9 points 16 hours ago* (last edited 15 hours ago)

Only if oddparents is prepended by fairly

E: spelling is hard

[–] meekah@lemmy.world 5 points 17 hours ago

Love it