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What are some subtle/small influences from your past that help shape the person you are today? (lemmy.ml)

submitted 2 days ago by Cataphract@lemmy.ml to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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I always forget we are creatures of habit till that moment hits. I have a relative who is a woodworker, but the reality is they just love collecting wood because they worked at a sawmill as a teenager and talking about wood was all his peers did. I also have a friend who wears the same cologne since childhood because a crush once complimented them on it.

I suppose always being the "good friend" (in their parents eyes) made me more sociable, so now I avoid "events" because I just feel like it's a game and I don't want my interactions with other people to feel that way (love small gatherings with a purpose though, the Amish got it right with the barn raising).

What are some that you've experienced personally or through someone close to you?

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[–] supermurs@lemm.ee 6 points 1 day ago

My late uncle was really into computers. He was around 20 years older than me and as I kid I got to play around with his computers. My first time accessing the Internet was at his place too.

If it wasn't for these experiences, I probably wouldn't have made a career in IT myself.

Unfortunately I never got to "talk shop" with him but I like to think he is somewhere out there watching and guiding me.