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what can it mean when a girl (a friend) suddenly acts odd ? (lemmy.blahaj.zone)
submitted 19 hours ago by galactic@lemmy.blahaj.zone to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml
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i don’t really need advice yet, it’s just a question. a girl im friends with acts really odd. we are friends, and we used to talk a lot, but then she started getting quieter, making less eye contact.

she also started being tenser/snippy at times.

when she’s not snippy, she’s just very quiet, which is most of the time. sometimes she’ll scoot over next to me but then scoot away, or act like she wants to sit by me but then goes away.

she doesn’t seem to be acting rude at all or mad at me. she will be nice, like smiling and waving and saying “hello”, or energetic when she can respond over text, so i don’t believe i’ve done anything to hurt her, but it’s just been really odd. what, from your experience, make a friend start acting this way? (especially girl because idk about guy friend behaviors)

most of the time, she acts normal, and i appreciate our friendship, and she seems to not hate me or anything like i said

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[–] jjjalljs@ttrpg.network 6 points 18 hours ago (6 children)

How old are you?

Have you considered asking what's up?

[–] galactic@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 18 hours ago (3 children)

I have, im a teen 😅

[–] jjjalljs@ttrpg.network 8 points 18 hours ago (1 children)

Well let me share with you the wisdom of age: often you can just ask someone what's up.

This also works on dates: you can just ask someone out. You don't have to go all in your head about it. If only someone had told me when I was a teen, alas.

[–] galactic@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 18 hours ago

Thank you so much ^_^ yeah ive asked and she just says shes fine

[–] lIlIllIlIIIllIlIlII@lemmy.zip 3 points 17 hours ago

Glad to see teens on Lemmy. I hope that you can fix it with your friend.

[–] nokturne213@sopuli.xyz 2 points 18 hours ago (1 children)

You have considered? Or you have asked?

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