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[–] Gibsonhasafluffybutt@aussie.zone 13 points 3 weeks ago (3 children)

I've realised how much of my life I've dedicated to work needlessly.

I've been home all day and I've lost touch with the things I do for enjoyment. All I want to do is grab the work laptop and keep working.

Don't end up like me. Draw the line.

[–] Seagoon_@aussie.zone 9 points 3 weeks ago

I think there are times when dedication and long hours are needed to learn and advance, and then when the rewards of that are attained then a person can relax a bit.

but working all the time? not generally a good idea

[–] goodthanks@lemmy.world 2 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Ask yourself where the habit comes from. And then try to think back to a time when you didn't have that habit, and how you felt. I do the same thing. For me it came from a place of validation.

My father never worked a day in my life so working hard to me, means being different than him.