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Thinking about getting bottom surgery (lemmygrad.ml)
submitted 1 week ago by ComradPhelixby777@lemmygrad.ml to c/lgbt@lemmygrad.ml
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As the title says, I wanna get bottom surgery, but the thing is, I live in a country which has little rights to death penalty for lgbt folks, and I live in a restrictive family that are bigoted and filed with hate. Every time when I get hyped about bottom surgery, I remember I live with worst family in a worst country

And that makes me feel down bad, I just get sad every time when I think about it.

And I was wondering what will be my friends (Online and irl) and my family reaction like if I ever said I wanna get bottom surgery? This scenario makes me heated up and afraid if I ever said it to them I’m now just sitting in my room, so pissed off I live in this country

I wanna get at least help or advice regarding my situation

Thanks to anyone who replied to this post

Bye comrades <3

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[–] ComradPhelixby777@lemmygrad.ml 3 points 6 days ago (2 children)

I once tried to apply for an account on hexbear, they didn’t even sent me email if they declined my application smh.. unless if this is how it works if moderators rejected ur app. But I will try posting I guess

[–] chesmotorcycle@lemmygrad.ml 4 points 5 days ago (1 children)

Sorry to hear that they didn't even get back to you. Hexbear can be flaky like that sometimes. You might also try our Matrix group. It's pretty active, and probably skews younger than Lemmygrad itself: https://lemmygrad.ml/post/1294067

[–] ComradPhelixby777@lemmygrad.ml 2 points 4 days ago (1 children)

I’ve joined it twice but I forgot my account’s password. But I joined and waiting for approval from mods :)

[–] chesmotorcycle@lemmygrad.ml 1 points 4 days ago

Nice! I'm sure you'll get in. You made it here after all. :)

[–] chesmotorcycle@lemmygrad.ml 2 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago) (1 children)

You might also check out this post, which mentions transfem.social as another good resource.

[–] ComradPhelixby777@lemmygrad.ml 2 points 5 days ago

Very cool. I’m not old enough to join.. but thanks