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This is a serious and frustrating problem for women's spaces. But I can't help but feel a little bad for some incels.* The ones who think it's all about height or jaw size or hair or physique. The ones who think all Stacys are slutty cum dumpster carousels for the Chads of the world to use. The ones incapable of seeing women in a nonsexualized light. The ones who fill their heads so full of hateful 4chan misogyny until they think women are the absolute enemy.
Somehow they get sucked into incel/blackpill/manosphere content, which is absolutely brainless but it justifies their belief that women are the cause of all their problems.
And the reason I feel bad for them is that it obviously stems from a deep and painful lack of self-confidence. And they just dig themselves into such a deep hole of self-brainwashing and delusion, it seems impossible that they could ever climb out. So they perpetuate their own suffering.
(*Don't get me wrong - the ones who look up to Elliot Rodger or George Sodini can go get fucked.)
That's sometimes the case. I'd be really interested to find out how many are secretly gay... "I'm not attracted to women cos they're awful, not cos I'm gay!"