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cross-posted from: https://lemmy.ml/post/1874605

A 17-year-old from Nebraska and her mother are facing criminal charges including performing an illegal abortion and concealing a dead body after police obtained the pair’s private chat history from Facebook, court documents published by Motherboard show.

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[–] TopRamenBinLaden@lemmy.world 20 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (3 children)

Thanks for adding some nuance that people might miss if they just read the headline. This girl broke some long established abortion laws by aborting at 7 months like you said. She is definitely in the wrong here.

At the same time, I don't like meta for violating people's privacy and working with law enforcement. Make law enforcement do their own jobs.

Still, I don't feel sorry for them. These women definitely dug their own hole. You think it would be obvious to people by now to not talk about illegal things on any social media, especially meta.

[–] Chippyr@sh.itjust.works 11 points 1 year ago

I’m trying, but it seems that unfortunately Lemmy is yet another platform chock full of people so hard left that they downvote an opinion that 7 months pregnant is a bit too far along to have an abortion… it’s insane to me that 7 months is even a debate. I’m pro-abortion up to a point. That point starts to become concerning after the first trimester. This baby was in the third trimester…

[–] Chippyr@sh.itjust.works 7 points 1 year ago

Also, meta was served a search warrant. They were required by law to comply.

[–] ParsnipWitch@feddit.de 3 points 1 year ago (2 children)

You would want to force a 17 year old (or any person) to go through pregnancy and childbirth because you personally feel that's the right thing to do? What about her rights? Does she lose them by getting impregnated? Because that's what you are wanting to enforce.

[–] TopRamenBinLaden@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

No not at all. Just don't get an abortion at 7 months. Literally doctors won't do it because it's unethical at that point. Did you even read the article? Like she took a bunch of drugs illegally to abort a fetus that could just about live outside the womb.

I am extremely pro choice, but we have a cutoff point for it that science has established to prevent cruelty.

[–] ParsnipWitch@feddit.de 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

But why is that a choice society makes for her body? I have asked that elsewhere but never get an answer from people who feel women should be forced to childbirth at a certain point: do you think people should be forced to donate organs?

[–] TopRamenBinLaden@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

I don't know why you are bringing up forced childbirth. I already said I was pro choice, and I am even antinatalist.

She made the choice to not abort until 7 months. Thats the problem here. At a certain point the fetus is considered a human and you cross the line into murder. Medical science has determined that point to be around 5- 6 months. I believe women should have every right to abort before the point the fetus is considered conscious.

When someone is pregnant, at a certain point they have made a human, and you cant just get rid of it like that. There are other options like adoption at that point. I don't know why you can't see the nuance here.

[–] ParsnipWitch@feddit.de 1 points 1 year ago (2 children)

It is still forced childbirth, obviously, because what else are you suggesting? You think after a certain point in pregnancy a woman should have to birth the child so others can adopt it. After a certain point you think the woman loses the right to chose for her own and now society has the right to dictate that she has to continue being pregnant and birth the child. I think it is important to fully realize that this is the consequence of your reasoning.

[–] TopRamenBinLaden@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

Okay well once you have created a human it is no longer a choice to kill it. Yes you are forced to give birth to a child at that point due to not getting an abortion before you created a human. Why don't we allow abortions up to 2 years? There's not a big difference between a 7month old fetus and a 2 year old.

[–] TopRamenBinLaden@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

Okay well once you have created a human it is no longer a choice to kill it. Yes you are forced to give birth to a child at that point due to not getting an abortion before you created a human. Why don't we allow parents to kill their kids up to 2 years? There's not a big difference between a 7month old fetus and a 2 year old.

Maybe you feel like because the mother made the human it's her property and she can do whatever she wants with it? Big old atheist me, and the rest of the old don't see it that way. Once a human is fully formed, that human has its own right to life. The mother doesn't own it like property, it's a human being at that point with its own rights like you and me.

[–] ParsnipWitch@feddit.de 1 points 1 year ago

Then I guess you are for forced organ donations as well.

[–] Technomancer@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 1 year ago

The baby was nearly fully formed with a face, hands, feet, and a heartbeat that could have survived outside the womb. I implore you to go look up some photos of a 28 week fetus and I guarantee you'll be surprised how much it looks like a normal baby.