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[-] Kuma@lemmy.world 15 points 8 months ago

Is this an adhd thing?! I haven't been diagnosed but this community makes me think too many times "i thought it was just me".

Because of the tweet did i have to remove my bonus thought it felt unnatural in this context 😂

Back on track: Sometimes do i want to add a parentes in a parents and it hurts every time.

[-] vithigar@lemmy.ca 22 points 8 months ago

No. A lot of "ADHD thing" tweets/memes are just quirks common across a wide spectrum of people. That they happen to also be common in those with ADHD is just coincidental.

For parentheses specifically, it's just a personal writing habit, and there are other ways to communicate "a thought followed by a bonus thought" without having to use them — hell, parenthetical clauses themselves don't have to use them. Parentheses in particular are probably a result of some people being taught that "a sentence is a complete thought", which is a nice description for someone just learning grammar, but also not actually true.

[-] Kuma@lemmy.world 5 points 8 months ago

Yea thought so, it feels a bit like horoscopes in newspaper sometimes. I only know two with adhd and they are both very extreme cases but polar opposite to each other so i don't have anything to base these "facts" on.

Yea i was taught that parentheses is just wrapping extra information that you won't read out loud and can be skipped. It was meant to be there to give more context for those that is not as well versed in the subject or helpful to point out things that may not be as obvious for the reader. For example "VIP(very important person)" or "a lot of things here are brown (the tables, chairs and floor)".

But i never even thought about how parentheses should be used until now. My teachers never really said anything about them.

[-] MystikIncarnate@lemmy.ca 4 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago)

I just want to say that a lot of the surface level ADHD actions are common to humans who are alive. The reason for those things various dramatically and the frequency of occurrence is definitely an ADHD thing, but simply getting distracted while focusing on something is not exclusive to ADHD, but being unable to focus because of distractions (sometimes distractions that are completely mental and exclusive to your brain) is an ADHD thing.

It's like, you're probably not going to be able to do your tax return next to an active jackhammer regardless of who you are, but when you're doing your taxes in a quiet room and you're distracted by the HVAC turning on and making a humming noise, that's probably ADHD.

Edit to add: I'm listening to someone in another room browse tiktok, I'm listening to the furnace hum and I can hear my stomach doing its digestion thing, yet I still maintained focus on this somehow. Medication works!