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[–] 13esq@lemmy.world 1 points 11 months ago (1 children)

There's sooooo much porn out there. Imagine the hottest women you can, performing your absolute favourite kinks and fantasies, it's a few clicks away, free and nearly unlimited. It's pretty hard for women in real life to compete with that.

Most of us have natural sexual attraction to other (real-life) people, but if the mind becomes conditioned to getting off when ever it wants in front of a computer screen then that can cause problems in real life situations.

[–] Kusimulkku@lemm.ee 9 points 11 months ago (1 children)

There’s sooooo much porn out there. Imagine the hottest women you can, performing your absolute favourite kinks and fantasies, it’s a few clicks away, free and nearly unlimited. It’s pretty hard for women in real life to compete with that.

Can't say I've had this issue. Real life is different, in a good way.

[–] 13esq@lemmy.world 1 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Anything in moderation is usually not too bad, a problem becomes much more likely if you've been masturbating to porn several times a day for months or years with no real life sexual encounters.

[–] PatFussy@lemm.ee 0 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Howcome ive heard of guys who preemy cum when a girl just holds their hand then? Like, they can be absolutely depraved and something as benign as a hug can make them lose their motor control and cum buckets. Unless you have some absolutely twisted and psychologically fucked up pleasures then I dont know how comparing to coffee is the same thing.

[–] Sodis@feddit.de 1 points 11 months ago

Might be breaking news, but humans are different. You are talking about two extreme sides of a spectrum here.