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[–] Entropywins@kbin.social 40 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago) (3 children)

You wouldn't be raising someone else's kids...you'd be raising your own if that makes sense.

[–] PlantDadManGuy@lemmy.world 9 points 11 months ago (2 children)

Until they hit 17, tell you they hate you and "ur not my real dad" and steal your car.

[–] echodot@feddit.uk 26 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Yeah because every kid does that

[–] uranibaba@lemmy.world 1 points 11 months ago

This has the feeling of experience, not generalization.

[–] candybrie@lemmy.world 17 points 11 months ago

Even if they're your biological kid, you get "I hate you! You're ruining my life!" before they steal your car. I don't know that that's much better. And it's about as true.

[–] Kusimulkku@lemm.ee 6 points 11 months ago

It doesn't biologically which is what they were talking about

[–] JasSmith@sh.itjust.works 5 points 11 months ago

The problem is that step parents have zero legal rights. If the marriage or relationship doesn’t work out, the step parent loses their entire family forever. It’s a raw deal for people brave enough to raise someone else’s kids. I could only ever consider this if I were able to legally adopt. That way, heaven forbid, things don’t work out with the relationship, they’re still my kids.