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submitted 11 months ago by axolittl@lemmy.world to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

I'll go first: "You have to have children when you're young," told to me when I was in my late 20s, with no desire to ever have kids, and no means to support them, by someone divorced multiple times with at least one adult child who does not speak to them.

Also: Responding to "How do I deal with this problem?" questions with "Oh, don't worry about it, it's enough that you're even thinking about it!"

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[-] notmyredditusername@lemmy.ml 54 points 11 months ago

"sleep when the baby sleeps"

Yeah because there's absolutely nothing that needs to be done once I finally get my daughter down. No washing and sterilising, for prep for us or for her, general chores around the house which you can never do effectively one handed. And fuck me if I wanted to try and relax and have an actual evening after they're down too.

"Sleeping like a baby" had also never seemed like such a juxtaposition!

[-] axolittl@lemmy.world 29 points 11 months ago

I feel like the phrase "sleeping like a baby" was not created by someone who was a primary caretaker for a baby.

[-] notmyredditusername@lemmy.ml 18 points 11 months ago

Exactly, unless they actually meant it to mean "for no more than 30 minutes then wake up crying inconsolably because I've shit myself."

Then they hit the nail on the head and people have just misconstrued it!

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