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Not talking all the time when spending time together. Being able to just quietly enjoy each other's company sometimes is actually a good thing since it allows both partners to relax without constantly worrying about keeping their partner's attention or keeping them entertained.
Currently sitting next to silent bf silently. We just grunt at each other for days in a row. Live with someone wanting constant interaction = hell.
My wife and I have a whole system:
Tim? How's Mr. Wilson these days? lol
What happens if you don't hear the first of three short grunts? Does one of you wonder why the other one is naked when they really just want a burrito?
ΒΏPor que no los dos?
So the cherries and whipped cream are for five grunts. Interesting.
Haha this is wholesome! π