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[–] therealjcdenton@lemmy.zip 1 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago) (1 children)

Because it's another thing discord mods can use to abuse their power. And common courtesy shouldn't be a rule, it should be natural

[–] mnglw@beehaw.org 3 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago) (1 children)

and that's the problem, people clearly are not extending common courtesy to trans people

so should we just let it go and let deadnaming and misgenderinh happen rather than actually making it part of the rules because its clearly neccesary?

[–] therealjcdenton@lemmy.zip 1 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Yes we should, if you silence people they won't change their opinion you'll just make them angrier

[–] mnglw@beehaw.org 1 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago) (1 children)

aha so I guess basic rights and common courtesy and all that don't matter when it comes to trans people, got it

[–] therealjcdenton@lemmy.zip 1 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago) (1 children)

Idk how you drew that conclusion, the point is common courtesy shouldn't be a rule

[–] mnglw@beehaw.org 0 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Its clearly not common courtesy when it doesn't happen when it comes to trans people. They are not given this supposed "common courtesy" That means trans folks are seen as sub-human and I do think we should make a rule of not othering/dehumanizing a group of people in such a way

[–] therealjcdenton@lemmy.zip 1 points 10 months ago (1 children)

That's treating the symptom not curing it

[–] mnglw@beehaw.org 1 points 10 months ago

so trans people should continue to actively be discriminated against by not being treated as the people they actually are because fighting that discrimination is not curing the symptom? weird take.