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On the lust thing, my take is that lust provides an initial attraction to want to be with someone and spend time with them, and then due to spending more time together you form closer bonds which may grow into love.
Similarly with the biological predisposition to find children adorable and want to protect them, that's what makes things work initially, but later you likewise grow to love them on their own merits.
Love is also an emotional response, of course, just a different sort of one.
True, but logic could also state that a group standing their ground and making loud noises would drive the tiger away. Quickly arming yourself, defence, deterrence, and group tactics are a logical response. A little pre-planning leads you to be able to curtail an emotional response later. Running and screaming as the emotional response would most likely lead to at least one person being injured (as tigers can outrun humans in short bursts) if not killed and eaten.
Yes. As a parent, yes, you go a little insane. Logic led me to say that we could handle one (which isn't a decision everyone gets to make). Emotion led me to actually be a Father. Kids absolutely play on and demolish both of those processes. Kids are chaos incarnate.
Heh. Sorta. I'm saying plan in advance (as in before the theoretical expedition), and it seems like you're saying planning later (as in after the first failure).
I see what you mean though!