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Make your purpose getting in shape and check two off.
Get in shape by imagining punching the cause of your childhood trauma in the face and check that one off aswell
And worry less about how society thinks they should live and enjoy their finite time. That's the other three.
Sounds like all OP needs is to figure out what makes them happy and do it with as much income as backs it. If earning money gets in the way of what they want to do, dial the balance back.
This is a checklist of someone lost and looking for direction or affirmation from socials or society, not actually looking for direction from their screaming inner soul.
What you said makes sense. However, it isn't so easy to navigate if you're stuck like this. They may very well know what they need, but obtaining those things might not be possible right now, and the result is feeling like what is depicted in OPs meme. "Screaming inner soul" is apt and even though it is loud and abusive, it doesn't always allow the person to move forward.
Apart from severe disabilities being fat is always actionable.
Disabilities require you to readjust your standards based on your condition.