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How do I tell my neighbours the windows in their bathroom are not frosted enough? (lemmy.world)

submitted 1 year ago by Noedel@lemmy.world to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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Neighbours recently had their home remodelled, which involved them putting new glazing in their bathroom. The glass is not frosted enough and there's a lot to see.

They are large windows too, starting at knee hight. How do I bring this up?

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[–] sorrybookbroke@sh.itjust.works 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

The framing in this conversation is important. This is difficult, but making it clear you'd rather not see that is how I'd go.

I'd tell them that I noticed I could clearly see the furnature, wall, or some detail and would rather not see them indecent.

No way around it, it's going to be a bit awkward, but telling them shouldn't seem like a weird thing to do. If you're polite, telling them about the issue is a kind thing to do.

Maybe a note outside their door? Could be anonymous if you don't know them well and they don't have cameras, saves both you and them the awkwardness