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The more I think about it, it seems that long-term happiness is something many people spend their lives seeking OR they believe it’s something they used to have and lost.

That makes me wonder if we are truly ever happy? Or if it’s something that is always just out of reach (in the future or in the past).

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[–] Fleshtrap@lemmy.world 36 points 1 year ago (4 children)

I'm happy. Family healthy, relationships are great. I love my job, I make good money, enjoy the work and people. I'm buying my first house soon though so perhaps may add some stress but I tend not to worry about worrying.

Sometimes I feel like a golden retriever, just happy to be around.

[–] ItsMeForRealNow@lemmy.world 15 points 1 year ago

God bless you dude. I'm happy for you. I'll take some happiness from your post.

[–] largesock@lemmy.world 10 points 1 year ago

Same. But it took a long time. Once I realized we humans are hardwired with social and emotional connections being primary, my life got way better. There is no comparison to feeling connected β€” way better than chasing prestige, status, or knowledge.

[–] Applejuicy@feddit.nl 6 points 1 year ago

Similar position. I also realize how lucky I've been in life in comparison to the less fortunate.

[–] MetalAirship@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

Same, sometimes (usually while driving for some reason) I just get overwhelmed with happiness at how well my life is going. Yeah it's not perfect, and obviously I was incredibly lucky to get where I am, but it's more than enough for me to be truly content.