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[–] Katzastrophe@feddit.de 34 points 7 months ago (3 children)

Whoever considers picky eating a problem can take it up with me, my friend is one, which simply means I get to eat the stuff she doesn't want to, and she can order something she might not like, knowing I will eat it anyways. It's a win win

[–] BossDj@lemm.ee 59 points 7 months ago (1 children)

As a father who either has to prepare the same meals over and over, or else make two separate meals, I do not share your positive outlook

[–] SuddenDownpour@sh.itjust.works 14 points 7 months ago (1 children)

It gets much better when the kids become co-responsible of their own alimentation.

[–] Rodeo@lemmy.ca 11 points 7 months ago (1 children)

Alimentation

It smacks of Victorian literature. I'll be adding this one to my verbiage, thanks.

[–] SuddenDownpour@sh.itjust.works 18 points 7 months ago

Leave it to us non-native English speakers to bring up extremely obscure English words out of nowhere.

[–] YarHarSuperstar@lemmy.world 25 points 7 months ago (1 children)

Thank you friend, from an autistic person with food issues.

[–] LucasWaffyWaf@lemmy.world 18 points 7 months ago (3 children)

Additional thanks from a fella whose brain reacts to weird textures in my food by gagging or vomiting. It's so embarrassing, especially around friends.

[–] realbadat@programming.dev 12 points 7 months ago

Hey, someone else with the same issue as me!

Yeah it sucks. So I end up getting a lot of the same things over and over again because I know what the texture will be.

'Hurr durr you're so picky' - or maybe I just don't like gagging and vomiting and can't control that reaction genius.

[–] BossDj@lemm.ee 7 points 7 months ago (1 children)

I have two or three foods that cause that reaction. I've just said that I'm allergic. Saves a lot of explanation.

[–] jabathekek@sopuli.xyz 6 points 7 months ago

In a way, you are.

[–] Katzastrophe@feddit.de 3 points 7 months ago (3 children)

I used to have that with zucchinis for whatever reason, so I definitely understand where you're coming from. First time eating quiche years ago was hell, nowadays I love it

[–] ABCDE@lemmy.world 2 points 7 months ago

Bananas for me.

[–] Maeve@kbin.social 1 points 7 months ago

Tbf, the only time I ever found cooked zucchini acceptable was in homemade bread.

[–] Emerald@lemmy.world 0 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago) (1 children)

What about cucumbers? I got a love-hate relationship with those

[–] BleatingZombie@lemmy.world 10 points 7 months ago (2 children)

I'm autistic and the opposite of a picky eater. That being said, when introducing people to new food you have to be extremely patient with them. A lot of things look, feel, and smell different that what most people are used to

[–] ThirdWorldOrder@lemm.ee 5 points 7 months ago (1 children)

My 4 year old is autistic and definitely didn’t get the picky eating thing out of the autism grab bag. This morning he mixed rice (with soy sauce) & relish and gobbled it up 🤮

[–] intensely_human@lemm.ee 0 points 7 months ago

Is that a picture of your son eating that relish?

[–] intensely_human@lemm.ee 1 points 7 months ago

I’m autistic, was a really picky eater.

Then I went to a series of ayahuasca and peyote ceremonies, and I can eat anything.

I remember the moment I rewired by damn throat muscles because I had a mouth full of peyote and it would be impolite and weak to spit it back out. My throat refused to swallow, and I went low-level for the first time since being a little kid and rewrote my swallowing firmware just to make it go down the hatch.