I'm a man, USA. In my personal experience, which doesn't mean very much, I've noticed that men seem unable to accept catastrophy. They try to reason or wiggle a way out of it. Woman seem more at ease when dealing with horrible events.

If I had to guess, it is a difference in perception and experience. Perhaps men are groomed to be "providers, problem solvers," and so they despair at unsolvable problems, while women are told not to "overreact," and to "support" others in times of crisis. Like a weird inverted effect of patriarchal society.

[–] MeanEYE@lemmy.world 17 points 8 months ago (1 children)

Men are groomed to hide feelings. We are often told from very young age don't be a sissy. Suck it up. Be a man. From young age you are thought that showing emotion makes you less of a man, makes you a sub-human. But we all have issues, pent up emotions and problems. Then one day you simply stop wanting things. Or pain becomes too much.

[–] Cryophilia@lemmy.world -1 points 8 months ago

Ever cry in front of a woman? She will never be attracted to you ever again.

[–] TwistyLex@discuss.tchncs.de 16 points 8 months ago

Expanding on this it could be that women deal with catastrophe (e.g. SA/rape) much earlier in life so later catastrophes are perceived as imminently survivable.

[–] AnalogyAddict@lemmy.world 6 points 8 months ago

Women are also often taught to expect unfairness.