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[–] DrDooom@lemmy.dbzer0.com 8 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I'm sure you're probably looking for answers like "took LSD" or "partied with friends" but, from someone that did that, my answer is 100%, without question: got a fucking degree. Any kind of degree. Now, in my late 30s, I don't have time between work and family obligations. I've missed out on so many better paying jobs, even ones that I was over qualified for based on experience, because I don't have a degree.

[–] minnieo@kbin.social 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

smart answer! need to get on this, im nearly 21 :0 my big issue is i dont know what to go for

[–] bridge_too_close@kbin.social 2 points 1 year ago

It doesn't even need to be a degree, honestly. You could go learn a trade. There are many trades that pay much more than many white-collar desk jobs. I'd say check out your local community college, trade school, or similar to see if anything looks interesting. Contact them and request more information or even a tour if something does. Regardless of the route you take, you definitely want to learn some sort of marketable skill. Also, there's nothing wrong with pursuing a career that's just tolerable or boring, but pays the bills. You can seek fulfillment outside of work.

As far as not knowing what to go for at 21, I just worked after graduating high school at 18, and it wasn't until I was 23 that I decided to go back to school.