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[–] Zeritu@lemmy.world -2 points 5 months ago (2 children)

What? You and your two boyfriends can live together all you want, but marriage is a legal construct that shares responsibility and burden between people and because of the responsibility part it's by design hard to get out of. Don't like how hard it is to get divorced? Easy: Don't get married.

I didn't criticise that this comic promotes getting in and out of relationships. I criticised that it suggests that a divorce has virtually no ramifications and boils down to two respecting adults separating on best terms, which is pretty fucking far from both, my personal experience and what's written in the law.

[–] SomeGuy69@lemmy.world 2 points 5 months ago

Thank you and that's why I won't get married ever because it's very unlikely that my understandings and morals aligne with anyone else. We live in a time of tiktok and people don't seam to feel obligations for anything anymore. Then they shouldn't get married, but you can't trust the other one anymore to be mentally grown up enough to understand this.

Marriage is just for a fancy dinner and tiktok short clips to share online, right? /s

[–] jol@discuss.tchncs.de -2 points 5 months ago (1 children)

Maybe your limited experience and the law is not respecting people who just happen to fall a bit outside the norm? The OP comic and my personal experience being just 2 examples of how the law is incompatible with our lives. You're making a hell of a lot of assumptions about our lives to decide that we're not serious about marriage. Heck, western countries were still figuring out gay marriage some yes ago.

The main reason why we can't have different modes of marriage is bureaucracy.

[–] Zeritu@lemmy.world 1 points 5 months ago

But that's not what this is about?

Should marriage be rethought and adapted to new realities? Yes. Good that we're on the same page there.