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weird uncomfortable sex/dysphoria/sexual anatomy posting
I already know VERY well that I have worse than no interest in sticking everyone's least favourite external genitalia into anything or anyone, and like oral sex is also fucking terrible. I can't really tell how okay I am with treating it like a clit, I guess. I think it's okay...? maybe?
And more generally, would I even mind having it if I could tuck at all? The most common thought I have about anything below the belt is that I need to learn to tuck.
I know it also kind of bugs me that my front is not flat when pressed against a partner, even though pressing it against stuff feels pretty good. Apply pressure. Clit is definitely vastly improved after longterm ESTROGEN WITHERING
at least, like low-to-zero sex fluids is cool, but I feel weird and undecided about it I guess.
I have no desire to recieve re: insertive sex, now or ever, and I can't even really picture how that would feel with a vag honestly, bad interroception again. It almost feels weird to imagine myself with different anatomy, but I think that's more because the idea of dramatically altering my body like that is unreal to my brain, since it can't happen yet, y'know.
One of the things that really destroyed my ability to even think about this subject was, again,
en bee
because as a teen I really wanted bottom surgery due to self hate, and then when I became less of a loser I really wanted it because my micro brain figured I was just supposed to. Removed of all the cisnormative assumptions, though... what do I actually want? How do I feel about the anatomical options available to me??? Idek.
I relate kind of, I don’t really have any desire to stick it anywhere or get it sucked necessarily, but at the same time I don’t really hate it (apart from the thing I mentioned the other night) and the idea of getting srs feels off to me.
Such a weird feeling, almost wish I felt one way or the other...