First of all, the actions of a state aren’t the actions of the people who live in a country - some may agree with those actions, but others still disagree. And even among those who agree, it’s hard to know whether they would still agree if they weren’t subjected to the state/media propaganda of their country.

This problem, like so many others, is a systemic one, not an individual one. If you’re looking for people to blame, its the wealthy elite.