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Ask Me Anything (AMA) Community Rules and Guidelines

This is the lemmy.ca AmA.

Welcome to the Ask Me Anything (AMA) community! This is a space where individuals from various backgrounds come together to engage in open and informative discussions. To ensure a respectful, enjoyable, and inclusive experience for everyone involved, we have established the following rules and guidelines:

  1. Be Civil and Respectful:

    • Treat all participants with respect, regardless of their background, expertise, or opinions. Personal attacks, insults, or derogatory language will not be tolerated.
    • Engage in constructive conversations, even if you disagree with the person answering the questions. Focus on addressing their responses or providing alternative viewpoints without resorting to hostility.
    • Remember that the participants are sharing their knowledge and experiences voluntarily. Appreciate their time and effort.
  2. Practice Politeness and Courtesy:

    • Use polite and considerate language when asking questions or engaging in discussions.
    • Be patient and understanding if the person answering takes time to respond. They may receive a high volume of questions.
    • Avoid spamming or repeating the same question multiple times. Give others a chance to ask their questions as well.

-Use NSFW and trigger warning TW in brackets if you talk about sensitive subject.

  1. Respect Boundaries and Privacy:

    • Do not ask personal or invasive questions unless the participant explicitly invites such queries.
    • If a participant declines to answer a question or requests to move on from a topic, respect their boundaries without pressuring them for a response.
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  3. Avoid Spam and Irrelevant Questions:

    • Ensure your questions are relevant to the participant's expertise or field of knowledge.
    • Avoid posting low-quality or repetitive questions that add little value to the discussion.
    • Respect the purpose of the AMA and avoid using it solely for self-promotion or advertising.
  4. Engage in Meaningful Discussions:

    • Prioritize thought-provoking and insightful questions that foster engaging conversations.
    • Be open to different perspectives and use the AMA as an opportunity to learn and broaden your understanding.
    • Jokes are allowed as long as they are respectful, appropriate, and do not target or marginalize specific individuals or groups. -If you are sarcastic, we recommend to use /s to be sure there is no confusion about your intention. Fake sarcasm will be found.

Remember, these rules and guidelines are in place to ensure a positive and informative environment for all participants. Failure to comply may result in 3 strikes warnings, temporary restrictions, or permanent bans at the discretion of the moderators.

in the future, a mod check and balance system might be implemented . Subject to change : [You might appeal your ban by contacting a special appointed moderator to judge if the ban was abusive.

Special appointed mod can create jury like conversation with randomly chosen users with jury votes to decide if bans are legit or not.]

Thank you for being a part of the Ask Me Anything (AMA) community. Let's engage in enlightening discussions, share knowledge, and create an inclusive space that values respect and diversity!

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[–] Hanabie@sh.itjust.works 7 points 1 year ago (1 children)

If they're unrelated, why do you bring it up?

[–] ada@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 1 year ago

Because it sounded funny?

[–] m0darn@lemmy.ca 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

If you were to be without electronics for a one month vacation what would you do for entertainment?

[–] ada@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Books, walking and cycling! Though doing sports without electronics would be a challenge for me.

[–] m0darn@lemmy.ca 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

What's your favorite book, or genre?

[–] ada@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 1 year ago

I love dystopian science fiction, but really, anything where the story and the characters are nuanced and imperfect. Where the "good guys" are conflicted and sometimes selfish, and where the "bad guys" are human.

[–] Semenaisse@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

What was the drama? Can you link it.

[–] ada@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I defederated lemmynsfw from the instance I admin

[–] tsz@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago
[–] Thedogspaw@midwest.social 1 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Are you against nsfw content in general or just on your instance

[–] Steeve@lemmy.ca 13 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

She mistook an onlyfans model for underage (she wasn't) and decided a community was made for models that are or look underage because it has "adorable" in the name (it isn't). She demanded the lemmynsfw admins remove the community and content (they didn't), and she defederated her instance from it, hence the drama. One of the biggest instance dramas of Lemmy so far! We really need a community for this shit.

[–] ada@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Oh look, there's the drama!

[–] Steeve@lemmy.ca 7 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

Are you uh, surprised it was brought up? After you mentioned it in your AMA post? Lol

[–] ada@lemmy.blahaj.zone -1 points 1 year ago

I'm surprised it took this long :)

[–] mysoulishome@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

Does anyone care if 1 instance defederates when there are hundreds to choose from?

[–] ada@lemmy.blahaj.zone 0 points 1 year ago

Neither. Our instance is home to several nsfw communities

[–] streetfestival@lemmy.ca 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

What's something you wish you could tell a younger version of yourself and why?

[–] ada@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 1 year ago (1 children)

"You have ADHD. Do something about it, or it will sabotage you for years, without you knowing why you can't do the things everyone else seems able to do"

[–] Pxtl@lemmy.ca 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I'm iny 40s and finally got help from a doctor about it after getting the runaround for decades.

Oh my God I am so retroactively angry.

[–] ada@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 1 year ago

Yep. I got diagnosed after my kiddo did, and it's hard not to be angry at all of the missed opportunities and losses that it has caused me, because I simply wasn't equipped to understand or work around the executive function deficits

[–] Mcballs1234@lemmy.ml 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Do you ride a bike? If you do what bike do you have?

[–] ada@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I ride a Merida Scultura 200, which is like Baby's First Real Roadbike :)

[–] Mcballs1234@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Thats a super cool bike, I ride a marlin 8 gen 2 and I've only injured myself a few times

[–] ada@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Oh, a cross country bike! That sounds like it would only be a matter of time before I came off it :P

[–] Mcballs1234@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I've never ridden a road bike, what's it feel like and whats your average speed?

[–] ada@lemmy.blahaj.zone 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

It's so light! It's interesting, because when I read reviews, they all comment on how heavy it is compared to more expensive road bikes, but coming from my background with a hybrid, the road bike is SO light.

I mostly use it for commuting though, as a way of keeping up my fitness, and cross training for my running, which is my main interest. I average about 22km/h on my commutes. Much faster when I do dedicates rides on bike paths, but I don't do them so much

[–] Mcballs1234@lemmy.ml 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I personally like aluminum frames better than steel or carbon because its a good in between light and sturdy.

I've been training for a 100 mile dash on my bike and I'm trying to get my average from 13 mph to 15 mph. I love my bike, I take my bike through the worst weather conditions like snow and rain and its so fun. What's your before meal preparation for bike rides?

[–] ada@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Generally nothing more than a coffee.

I get up early, I have my coffee, and then I ride. I eat on the other side of the ride :)

[–] Mcballs1234@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Really, I would suffer if I didn't eat anything and I would be going slower than a running chicken.

[–] ada@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 1 year ago

I tend to run and ride early in the morning, and if I eat first, I lose momentum and then feel heavy during the run.

[–] audiomodder@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

How do you feel about people who kiss server admin butts?

Also, why are you so awesome?

[–] ada@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

How do you feel about people who kiss server admin butts?

I mean, as long as they're one of my partners, I'm down :P

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