I've heard that used/refurb Thinkpads are pretty solid for this usecase
maybe the older Frameworks might also be a good option as I've seen the older models go on sale
Macsbooks I'm hesistent to recommend as you'd be SOL for repairs unless you're near a good repairshop like Louis Rossmann but Macs could still be good depending on what sales you find
the closest exp I've had with ARM is Arch Linux on my Raspberry Pi 4 which runs but is definitely hampered on performance and functional apps in comparison to any other laptops