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Hello new Lemmy friends!

Word on the street tells us our community is regularly making it the all page. While this is very cool news to hear, we can see how the sudden emergence of our posts in your feed might feel jarring and probably raises some questions. And also how, without knowing the backstory, our community might appear less than virtuous, so here’s a very brief introduction which hopefully will clear a few things up.

The woman we’re discussing is a body positive influencer and media personality who has gained fame and wealth by lying, manipulating, exploiting her children for content, plagiarizing BIPOC creators and blaming her BIPOC content editor for it (thereby ruining her career), among other things. Her fraudulent behavior is no different (I’d argue worse) from the likes of Jay Shetty (google him if you don’t know who he is or what he did). She’s the latest in a long line of grifting influencers who are abusing their power, taking advantage of their position and exploiting their followers. The difference is that she’s Canadian. Our laws around social media and advertising aren’t as clear (and where they are she’s disobeyed them), add to that, our mainstream media has protected her from those who’ve tried to expose her grift and silenced/intimidated anyone who’s tried to speak out.

Our Reddit sub was taken down due to reports of copyright infringement, which is unfounded and categorically untrue as no one ever tried to steal her work and pass it off as their own. The mods have made an appeal. While at first glance it may seem like we’re just “shitting on her” the sub has been more devoted to investigation and posting proof of her lies than just bitching for the sake of bitching. The reality is that she’s hurt, manipulated and let down a lot of people. She stole intellectual property and employment, caused mental distress and has repeatedly told lies to boost engagement and profit off her audience, so people are understandably upset that their voices are being silenced.

We’re grateful to have been welcomed so kindly by so many of you, and to those sticking around to watch the drama unfold, we’re glad to have you!

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[–] Rarepotato@lemmy.ca 14 points 1 week ago (1 children)

So she plans a trip to Disney for her birthday and orders an expensive cake, but for L’s birthday, it's a Costco cake, last-minute planning, and “good enough.” Can you imagine if someone said that about TBP's? You know it'll be her “friends” she’s invited, and their kids, if they have any, will be there. L isn't allowed any of her thoughts, likes, friends, topics, interests, etc. Gross. So slimy.

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[–] Rarepotato@lemmy.ca 14 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)
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[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 14 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

More modeling runway action for Bird or is she back to wanting to be an actress?

[–] bellaportuguesexo@lemmy.ca 15 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (2 children)

I’m a girls girl but I hope she doesn’t get it.

Edit to add : she probably already got this “big job” but she needs all the kind words and best of luck from her flock of sheep…. Then when this big job comes up she can show how hard and how much work she’s put in for this big job.

[–] Whaaambulence@lemmy.ca 17 points 2 weeks ago

We all know she didn't apply for shit. Somebody will be pulling some strings, or Shine doing all the work. She's been handed literally every single thing in life and has never had to work or apply for anything. She wouldn't know what work is, even if it slapped her in the face........which I may or may not encourage lol

[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 11 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (1 children)

I think she already knows she got it as well. She’s usually pretty tight lipped. It took her months to talk about the Hallmark audition she didn’t get.

[–] Poofluencers@lemmy.ca 10 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)

She getting lean again and the influencers getting ahead of her are tic tok based (not sure what the ban will mean for influencers) - her ego is getting even bigger - she brags now!

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[–] Whaaambulence@lemmy.ca 13 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Would LOVE to see the resume lol

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[–] Rarepotato@lemmy.ca 13 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

Middle pic is Knix photoshoot. Other two are what she captured and posted. 🍑🥞🍑 so ridiculous.

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[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 13 points 1 week ago (1 children)

NB wanted to make sure everyone knows they were hanging out last night. She must of saw the Bday snub post 🤣

[–] Lisamarie@lemmy.ca 12 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I think they’re here and on Reddit often…

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[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 13 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (14 children)

And this is different from every other day how exactly? Pretty sure she chauffeurs princess on over to NK everyday. Just another excuse to take a selfie.

[–] Glowpop@lemmy.ca 13 points 2 weeks ago

I hate how she calls herself a chaffeur. You are a mother driving your young children to the places they need to be!!

[–] facialSwelling@lemmy.ca 10 points 2 weeks ago

This looks nothing like her IRL photos. I'm so sick of her.

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[–] cookiefleck@lemmy.ca 13 points 1 week ago

That clip of her putting the sweater on the stupid goose is FULL of bendy walls and disappearing trim behind her. She is such a lazy liar.

[–] Uterusofsteel@lemmy.ca 13 points 1 week ago (5 children)

IS SHE CRYING BECAUSE SHE'S AN OH SO SPECIAL EAGLES FAN?! I legit cannot. Ma'am you will NEVER be an NFL fan. I don't care what people have told you or said. I was born in it. Raised in it. Live it. My dad has a football podcast for crying out loud. I build parlays with my 11 yr old (who started playing football at FIVE). I live in Chicago. One of the biggest sports markets out there. I wear my Saints stuff all the time, and nobody gives a shit. NOBODY CARES THAT YOU ARE WEARING EAGLES GEAR.

Rant over. I'm just so annoyed lol

[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 12 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Lmao this. She thinks she’s so special and different because she’s wearing eagles gear today, she’s so lame. My fiancé and I are Habs fans in Leafs region, we wear our merch and don’t make a big deal about it lol. Idk why she makes everything like she’s such a special snowflake, nobody gives a fuck!!!

[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 13 points 1 week ago (1 children)

She’s a paid “fan” that’s the difference.

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[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 12 points 2 weeks ago (6 children)

Love how I mentioned she never gets off the sofa to do anything and here she is doing dishes 😂

I’d love to know what this big job is lol

[–] Whaaambulence@lemmy.ca 13 points 2 weeks ago

It's certainly not being a mother

[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 12 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (3 children)

Me too! What could possibly be bigger than her big SI runway debut that she doesn’t shut the fuck up about? Maybe she’s running away to Florida to become a Disney cast member 🤣

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[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 12 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Watch me style my brain, no shirt of course. A must do to get ready for a 4 year olds party.

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[–] Glowpop@lemmy.ca 12 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

If these parents didn't have this little girl, I wonder what they would do all day, let alone what Turdie's content would consist of. Shane should be ashamed of himself, what a useless lump he appears to be. I would be so embarrassed if that was my husband and people saw him like that in my internet videos.

Forgive me and I hope I'm wrong, I don't have kids and am rarely around children that young, but L seems to be so ...stunted? for a 4 year old. How did she not know the toy was a baby? The Elsa princess dress needed to be washed, so the only suitable alternate is a floofy fairy dress with wings?? What about normal loungewear?

[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 13 points 2 weeks ago

It’s hard to say because kids can be so different at that age but she definitely has an interesting way of speaking. She is very repetitive and seems to mimic a lot. I don’t know if it’s because they constantly talk to her in that baby voice bullshit or what.

[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 11 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (2 children)

They’ve (Sarah and NK especially) turned that kid into a cartoon tbh. I don’t have kids either nor do I spend a lot of time around them but I do agree with you. I’m sure it has a lot to do with the fact she’s so coddled, sheltered and is always being pushed to perform for the camera. She always comes as robotic to me because she always seems like she’s being fed a script and nothing seems natural about her. Doesn’t help she’s ALWAYYYYYSSSS plopped infront of a Disney movie. Poor kid really needs a life outside of NK’s home and her own home, she needs interactions with other people (teachers and kids).

[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 10 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

I swear all I hear most of the time is Wow, Oh Wow, good job on repeat. I guess they have given up on gymnastics? No swim lessons?

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[–] Rarepotato@lemmy.ca 12 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (3 children)

Her kids (esp teen son 😳) and their friends/teachersall see her socials. Whyyy does she post this? And IMMEDIATELY after multiple stories of her 3 year old daughter 😕

[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 13 points 2 weeks ago

Her teen son is probably more mature than this desperate pig.

[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 10 points 2 weeks ago

She’s a sick human being. Couldn’t imagine posting multiple stories of my little girl then following it up with this.

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[–] Poofluencers@lemmy.ca 11 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (5 children)

She’s Sarahsplaining how frugal she is with L’s party planning. So many words so little substance as per usual. Who the F gets nervous about throwing a kids birthday party? She’s saying she’s nervous about how the party is going to come together. L got to watch TV for her calendar birthday treat so I can’t imagine she has big expectations for her lazy ass mother (if 4 year olds have expectations 🙂). What miss shallow is nervous about is if her influencer friend guests will praise her. She says such stupid crap. She has no confidence what so ever. She has to prove she’s not spending on her kids party cuz she wants people to like her but she keeps lying about her appearance and lives a purely wasteful lifestyle. Spend the money on L - who cares?!

[–] Whaaambulence@lemmy.ca 15 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

It's because it has nothing to do with her actual child and her bday and has everything to do with her and how people see her, how she planned her kids bday, what she did for her to make up for all of the times she's left her, for the gram. It's this image she has to uphold, while still lying. That's what makes her nervous. She's so far deep, anything can slip. She's under a microscope and all will be lost soon enough and she knows it. Side note: funny how she's frugal for her kid, but spending sees no boundaries for herself

[–] Selfabsorbedbarbie@lemmy.ca 12 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

Like her 3 year planned Disney trip with all her influencer friends lol. That's gonna be the end for her, especially with everything that's going on.

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[–] Rarepotato@lemmy.ca 14 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)

Does she not know how to look up an item in the store app, and it'll tell you exactly where it is?! Why is she so incapable of helping herself? How does she have four kids?!

[–] MoonChild@lemmy.ca 12 points 1 week ago

The pregnancies just began and she became a mother - she doesn’t know how it happened! 😂

[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 12 points 1 week ago

She’s truly useless, can’t even figure out how to grocery shop

[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 12 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

She really thought she was doing something. “For the futurrrrrrre” I can’t stand her crispy r’s and fake voice acting.

[–] Selfabsorbedbarbie@lemmy.ca 12 points 2 weeks ago

She's getting grosser by the day. I think she feels the walls closing in. And it's a 4 yr olds birthday party....it's not that fucken complex. Stfu

[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 12 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (2 children)

She’s very manic? She just babbles on like crazy. Like do people really care about her throwing a massive overblown party for her 4 year old? We all know NK has prob planned the whole thing and she’s told Sarah to go out and buy certain things bc she’s useless. Who even is this party for, does L even care at the end of the day? She just wants to show off for Instagram that she cares about her kid one day a year. Poor kid doesn’t even have any real friends to invite to this lavish themed party bc she’s not in daycare, preschool, any clubs. All this effort and the party will just be Sarah’s adult friends and their kids.

And why is she even nervous? L truly won’t care about all the little details. Is she nervous one of her influencer friends won’t like it? I don’t get it.

Also whose face is this? She’s so fake.

[–] Richbynameonly@lemmy.ca 12 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

I cannot stand her fucking fake lips. Remember ladies, “love yourself”

Listening to her babble on about poor L’s party, like stfu. I’d be more nervous and embarrassed because poor L has NO FRIENDS! What an idiot

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[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 11 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

Who cares her mother was an ECE? Blah blah blah. So worried about the party because she has to keep up with the likes of Jillian.

[–] Whaaambulence@lemmy.ca 13 points 1 week ago

Her mother was not an ECE. She was an in home daycare provider to a couple of neighborhood kids. Please. And in the 80's/90's, no licensing requirements.

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[–] Lisamarie@lemmy.ca 11 points 2 weeks ago

That’s exactly why she’s saying this! And wow that photo is nothing like the real life photos people have posted of her! She’s a horrible person.

[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 11 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (4 children)

It amazes me the way she wishes people happy birthday compared to how others fawn over her birthday. NB just gets a reposted video with a basic message attached. Bri actually posts a photo of her and NB with a nice message.

I’ve thought for a while now that NB and Sarah aren’t as close anymore. Bet Sarah is jealous that Bri and NB got closer bc they both are interested in women’s sports and Sarah is just a try hard.

[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 11 points 2 weeks ago (4 children)

I guess BirdShit didn’t want to partake in 7-11 hotdog bday lunch today? Does Becci consume anything healthy or is it just junk food and cat feces 24/7?

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[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 11 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (5 children)

She’s a writer ✍️ things, things and more things.

[–] Rarepotato@lemmy.ca 11 points 2 weeks ago

Why is she always the only one sitting on a stool while the others stand around her? It’s weird. It screams, “I’m the important one; you must know that!”

[–] Selfabsorbedbarbie@lemmy.ca 10 points 2 weeks ago

Always hiding her belly with her arm. I can still see it Birdshit.

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