Baldur's Gate 3

His existence is justified by the fact that he was included in the game. Sorry you don't like the character, you're free to just leave him at the camp or murder him at the start of the game.

You described two extremes as examples of parties he wouldn't fit into, but conveniently left out neutral groups. God forbid if we have nuance and humanity in our playthroughs by being more complicated than the hero or villain archetype. I have him in my party because he's a rogue, and his ability to assassinate people and pick locks helps me focus on not doing those things.

It just seems so harsh to distill his character down to "creepy rapist", especially without even scratching the surface on his backstory.

I would imagine a vampire would sneakily attempt to drink my blood at night. That's kinda their whole thing. How that equates to being a rapist is beyond me.

Some people like a bit of variety in their characters. He's not in my main party but I enjoy the silly slimy fop.

Oh boy, wait until you play The Dark Urge, you will wish Astarion was your worst problem

I’m playing a ‘good’ character and I really enjoy having him around. I trusted him and let him do his thing.

I would not call him an ‘evil’ character, a bit selfish but not to a harmful degree. He cares about your feeling and the feeling of others, he has gone out of his way for 200 years to -not- hurt anyone. He’s far from a lost cause even if you’re hardline ‘good’, your companionship is a powerful lesson to him.

I'm playing as the dark urge. He is a pleasant fellow compared to me. I'm surprised everyone else stuck around with me.

He is a person I would avoid in real life most likely. However in a game where I can be many shades of grey and safely make bad decisions (like letting a vampire in my party because I see the victim in the predator) and can act like I have no ego, he is an extremely interesting character and if you understand his whole Story he is very well written.

I do not feel seen. :(

Some of us have fantasies of being fed on by vampires. Not every companion has to be suited to your tastes but as a morally questionable charlatan sneaking and stealing my way through the campaign Astarion is an absolute delight of a sidekick. He can feed on me all he wants. 😘

I kicked him from the party as soon as he tried to bite me while sleeping. I realized afterward that he took the green gear I just bought for him with him. So I reloaded, took the gear off him before calling it a night, and then was even angrier at him for trying to bite me and making me go through the whole reload process that I killed that bitch. One of the best moments in the game so far.

I don't know what to make of him either.

First he tries to kill me, now he's constantly hitting on me. Although, because I built my dude specifically for dialogue, I have had insight checks that tell me he's faking his flattery. So I don't trust him at all. But I am not sure if that is something everyone will encounter or just if you have the right stats to succeed the passive checks.

Edit: Ok well I now know why he was creepy. But he also said he wanted to fuck, just not me and now I'm mad.

Why would an evil player boot him? He's the only non-custom character with expertise in Sleight of Hand, his utility outweighs his cost. He's a significant contributor to me becoming filthy rich. He doesn't even demand a share of the loot. Blood is cheap.

Adds some spice as a vampire and his quest is interesting too. I’m not sure if the word is to say he gets better but his story gets intense.

I absolutely agree with you. He's such a fucking creep

I let him go the moment I caught him trying to bite me, and minimizing it too!