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Every time somebody sends me a thumb I take it as "whatever you say you fucking dumbass" and it pisses me off.

And ya, I'm aware that that the replies are going to be thumbs, let's see em ya jerks!!!

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[โ€“] quantum_faun@lemmy.ml 2 points 1 week ago

No big deal at all

[โ€“] dumbass@leminal.space 2 points 1 week ago
[โ€“] kattfisk@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 1 week ago
[โ€“] cl4p_tp@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 1 week ago

Oh wow. I thought only I had an issue with this.

[โ€“] njm1314@lemmy.world 2 points 1 week ago
[โ€“] HubertManne@piefed.social 2 points 1 week ago

nope but my lingo interpretation is way dated and by the time I uptake something its out of fashion.

[โ€“] Jimmycrackcrack@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 week ago

Just make sure you don't use it, or fail to clarify and confirm the meaning of its use, in a business setting or you could be in some trouble.

[โ€“] Zoldyck@lemmy.world 1 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Yes. It frequently comes across as passive aggressive or as if the person doesn't care.

[โ€“] xorollo@leminal.space 1 points 1 week ago
[โ€“] gon@lemm.ee 1 points 1 week ago

I totally get you! Whenever I feel that it could be interpreted that way, I don't send the thumbs-up. I do use it though, but I try to be careful to avoid that misinterpretation.

[โ€“] Crotaro@beehaw.org 1 points 1 week ago

It depend on the context/group.

At work, no biggie, it just tells me that you acknowledge my message and currently have nothing useful to add.

With my friends, who usually heavily rely on emojis and "oldtimey smileys" (like xD or y.y)? Ya, unless you completely eminate happiness and friendship, I'm concerned about your mood / standing with me.

[โ€“] lorty@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 week ago

The context will be more telling of if it's actually rude or not. There's a lot of chat software nowadays where you can "react" to a message with a thumbs up and people use it to acknowledge what was said.

Most of the time, yes.

[โ€“] teagrrl@lemmy.ml -1 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Definitely is a rude reply. Zero effort and sarcastic.

I think depending on your generation and language you speak it can have different meanings.

[โ€“] PiomPiom@lemmy.world -1 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Sounds like a you problem. An emoji is just that, context of usage defines it's meaning.

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