Never reached the alpha male video phase, but I did look to shitty male role models. Then I realized no male role would ever feel right to me. I could respect the good ones, but I wouldn't feel comfortable actually being them.

[–] vaultdweller013@sh.itjust.works 4 points 9 months ago

Yeah, the amount of shit that you can find out about yourself when you realize ya aint getting what ya need from some folks is quite impressive. Mind you i aint trans, but I fell down the right wing pipeline up until about 2016 when I came to the conclusion right wingers are all stupid or evil. Cause fuck is the orange dipshit stupid, seriuously I was watching shitstains like sargon and tldr or whatever his fucken name is.

Now im a socialist redneck dude who worships Odin, I certainly had character development its just that it was all ran through my half functional autistic ass mind.

[–] KingThrillgore@lemmy.ml 15 points 9 months ago

Thanks Miku, I needed that today.

[–] Daft_ish@lemmy.world 11 points 9 months ago

Hey we all get mixed up trying to figure out how to be the person we want to be. Especially if you don't have a positive role model. Start teaching each other there is nothing more alpha than being a good person who is true to themsleves.

[–] cupcakezealot@lemmy.blahaj.zone 10 points 9 months ago (1 children)

jif peanut butter+ fluff = chefs kiss

[–] Uncle_Sheo217@lemmy.world 6 points 9 months ago

Fluffernutters are amazing

[–] populustree@lemmy.blahaj.zone 8 points 9 months ago

thank you jif miku, very cool!

[–] Thcdenton@lemmy.world 5 points 9 months ago

Guys I figured out how to be alpha. It's easy. Just shoulder check everyone and never be the first to break eye contact.